New to Intercourse After 4 Yrs And Painfull Posted: 10-01-07 22:48pm
I am 32 F and it has been over 4 years
since the last time I had intercourse. My
current b/f who is older (3 and we had sex this
past weekend. I had used a fair amount of
lube. After trying a few postions he was
able to enter and we had a wonderfull
time. After that I have become very
painfull whenever he tries to enter my
vagina. He
knows I am painfull and does not force his
way into me. We both decided to give sex a
break untill I am not as sore. I did look
at my vaginal area to see if I noticed
irritation. I did notice redness around
the opening to my vagina. It is tender to
the touch. What can I do to prevent the
soreness from him entering my vagina? I am
willing to try other types of lube. I
don't think the K-Y silk was that good. I
would also like to know what I can do to
allow him to enter me. His penis is very
large when he is fully erect. I am unable
to get my fingers around his penis
whenever I stimulate him. He is much
larger than the other guys I had been
with. He also knows he is well endowed and
is fully comfortable with taking his time
and going slow when I aak. If anyone can
shed some light and some helpfull advice
please feel free.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-01-07 22:52pm
You've done all you can do: Lots of lube
and go slow! About the only other thing
you can do is have an orgasm before he
begins entering, as this will increase
natural lubrication and loosen you more.
you are doing the right thing. I also
agree with Eiri if u have an orgasm
before hand it will be easier for him to
enter.
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Rosie H
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Posted: 10-05-07 10:27am
The KY silk made my skin burn a little.
One the sex started my sking felt like it
was cut, but it was the lube. I didnt
like KY silk at all. Try the lube called
"WET" this has worked really well for me,
better than KY. They have just come out
with a new WET thats all natural. See if
a change in lube can help...Hope it gets
easier for you
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-05-07 12:40pm
I agree with Rosie- I get really sensitive
to special lubes- I need the straight up
stuff, no frills. Try relaxing, deep
breaths, orgasm before you try
intercourse, these all might help.
and we had sex this
past weekend. I had used a fair amount of
lube. After trying a few postions he was
able to enter and we had a wonderfull
time. After that I have become very
painfull whenever he tries to enter my
vagina. 
He
knows I am painfull and does not force his
way into me. We both decided to give sex a
break untill I am not as sore. I did look
at my vaginal area to see if I noticed
irritation. I did notice redness around
the opening to my vagina. It is tender to
the touch. What can I do to prevent the
soreness from him entering my vagina? I am
willing to try other types of lube. I
don't think the K-Y silk was that good. I
would also like to know what I can do to
allow him to enter me. His penis is very
large when he is fully erect. I am unable
to get my fingers around his penis
whenever I stimulate him. He is much
larger than the other guys I had been
with. He also knows he is well endowed and
is fully comfortable with taking his time
and going slow when I aak. If anyone can
shed some light and some helpfull advice
please feel free.
