I noticed a spot on my boyfriends penis
that was a redish purple color. Looked
like it was bruised. I would like to know
how could it have been bruised if it
wasn't me that done it by having
intercourse with him. Almost looks like a
hicky and I didn't think you could put a
hicky down there. Please help me figure
out what this could be. Also he said it
caused him no pain and its just a dime
sized flat spot.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-04-07 14:46pm
Does it feel different than the rest of
his skin? Guys have lots of blood vessels
right under the skin all over their penis,
that could be it. It could be a vessel, or
it could also be like a broken vessel or
something (like a bruise) which could be
like a hicky or just from squeezing a
little hard. It could be discolored like a
bruise but not hurt like one.
That sound likely?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-04-07 21:20pm
It sounds like a simple birth mark to me.
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bubbles101
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Spots On My Boyfriends Penis Posted: 10-04-07 22:24pm
The spot doesn't feel any different from
the rest of his skin. And it could be a
broken blood vessel. I just don't
understand how it got there, if it didn't
come from anything I done. Is it possible
to injure that area without having sex.
He does do alot of heavy lifting during
the day, which is required in his job.
Thanks for the advice.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-04-07 22:40pm
By the way yes you can put a hickey on any
part of the human body.
Is this spot new or not? I don't think
lifting would hurt his penis, however if
something smacked into his groin it may.
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WShep
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Posted: 10-05-07 03:17am
mmmm you need to talk to him about it if
you have not already. Chances are hes
pretty in tune with his Johnson. I know
If i saw something on my penis I would
definitely find out what it is ASAP.
If he hasnt had it forever I doubt its a
birthmark, if it is...your question will
be answered in two seconds.
Ask him some questions, I would be shocked
if he didnt know what it was or wasnt
actively trying to figure out what it is.
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bubbles101
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Posted: 10-06-07 09:22am
He said he had no idea what it was and
where it came from. Does this sound like
he is hiding something to you? Because it
does to me. Also, he is not overly
concerned with getting it checked out, he
says it doesn't hurt so there is no reason
to get it checked out. Does anyone else
think that something is not quite right
about his reaction, or am I just over
reacting.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-06-07 10:10am
Personally I think you're overreacting,
but I'm a trusting person and this mark
doesn't sounds like an STD at all.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-06-07 10:46am
I still think that the penis is such a
sensitive area and has so much blood
swirling around in it, it could easily be
a bruise or broken blood vessel.
Especially if it isn't bugging him at all.
It certainly doesn't sound like an std,
though.
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bubbles101
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Posted: 10-06-07 22:32pm
I think it is a bruise also. But my
biggest concern is how did it get there.
I haven't been sexually active with him in
two weeks, so I know that it did not come
from me. This is my biggest concern is
what caused the bruise to form. I am
usual a trusting person. But seeing
something that looks like a hickey on my
bf penis has really unnerved me some. But
the spot has disappeared now, which is
good. I guess all I can do is keep a
close watch and see if he turns up with
another "spot". Thanks for all your
helpful advice.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-09-07 12:53pm
Masturbating??
They do it all the time.
I wouldn't assume he was unfaithful unless
you have other evidence.
