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End relationship w/BF? Found out I'm pregnant ... Posted: 10-04-07 17:17pm
I am pregnant and I was once before but I
had a miscarriage. My problem is when I
told my boyfriend of four years he flipped
out. He seems to mentally put me down
telling me its all my fault and calls me
names and I should of been more care full
of what happen last time. He says he need
couple of days to cool off but he will
call me and scream at me and make me feel
so low that i feel I cant get back up
again. I know when people fight they say
things they don't mean but when he goes
crazy like that I put my guard up and say
thing that are from the past and feel bad
about it after. It's hard to think about
someone you love so much can be so mean
and make you so sad when all i want is us
to be happy and to talk some since to him.
I'm starting to think I cant handle this
anymore and that this relationship is not
healthy for me but I love him so much. he
is starting make me feel like I'm no good.
What should I do?
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5321 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
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Posted: 10-04-07 20:25pm
Oh Honey!! He's abusive! You need to leave
him!
Someone you are in a relationship with
should make you feel better about
yourself, not worse. If he really loved
you, he would care enough about your
feelings to stop doing that to you! You
may love him, but you need to love
yourself (and your baby!) more.
Leave him, find some good friends or
family to help support you as you
transition away from him. you will find a
better guy, someone who makes you feel
good about yourself.
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ladyT02
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Posted: 10-12-07 19:06pm
Yea leave him, if he.s not even supportive
one bit he.s not worth it. I had a scare
with my boyfriend of 1 year. We live
together etc. When I told him I might be
he said he had specifically told me that
he didn't want any or marriage till he was
30 lol which was a surprise to me cause he
had never told me that in the beginning of
our relationship. But that doesn't mean
that he might not change his mind later
on. But ever since I didn't feel like he
was supportive in that area I just got
scared and ruled out having or wanting
kids with him unless he showed and proved
to me he wants me to be THAT girl, you kn
ow the one a guy wants to have his babies.
Lol anyways If he won't support you be it
by being in the kids life, or financially
(child support etc) jus dump him. He's not
worth your time
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ladyT02
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Joined: 24 Sep 2007 Posts: 196 Location: ,
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Posted: 10-12-07 19:08pm
Yea leave him, if he.s not even supportive
one bit he.s not worth it. I had a scare
with my boyfriend of 1 year. We live
together etc. When I told him I might be
he said he had specifically told me that
he didn't want any or marriage till he was
30 lol which was a surprise to me cause he
had never told me that in the beginning of
our relationship. But that doesn't mean
that he might not change his mind later
on. But ever since I didn't feel like he
was supportive in that area I just got
scared and ruled out having or wanting
kids with him unless he showed and proved
to me he wants me to be THAT girl, you kn
ow the one a guy wants to have his
babies.
If I would have been pregnant and decided
to have it and my boyfriend didn't want to
then I would just leave him, and never see
or speak to him again. Even if there was a
child between us. I already told him that.
Why stay with someone that doesn't want
your child just because you think its the
best thing for your kid? The kid notices
there's no love or respect, those type of
things.
If you have real friends and family who do
want this baby in their lives that's all
you need
Lol anyways If he won't support you be it
by being in the kids life, or financially
(child support etc) jus dump him. He's not
worth your time
Last edited by ladyT02 on 10-12-07 19:14pm; edited 1 time in total
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