Ok so previously I posted a topic about my
boyfriend not being able to hold an
erection...I took all of your SOOO helpful
advice (by the way THANK YOU VERY MUCH)
and it turned out to be a mental thing, as
he was anxious, and nurveous, Once i
reassured him things popped right up and
things have been great ever since. Well
almost great, now that we can have sex
with no problems he wants to do it
NON-STOP!!! I realize he's 23 years old
and in his sexual prime, but I don't want
to have sex 6, yes i repeat 6 times every
single day! I work a full time job and am
a full time law student so really I'm only
home for about 8 hours a day to sleep
shower, relax etc....well now in that 8
hours we have to have sex at least 4-6
times a day. I'm really happy he got his
erection back, but I would also be really
happy if I could sleep more than 3 hours
without having to get woken up by him
wanting to have sex...again. I can't even
snuggle up next to him in bed at night
without him getting an erection and
wanting to have sex...again! Any
suggestions on how to tell him to chill
out on the sex without hurting his
feelings???
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5323 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
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Posted: 10-05-07 16:58pm
Well, you really will just have to sit
down with him (fully clothed) and try to
come to a compromise about how you could
both be satisfied with the amount of sex
you have.
6 times a day is excessive! Figure out how
often you would like to have sex, and go
from there. You will both have to give a
little, most likely. Just make sure you
tell him that you still want sex, you're
happy that he likes it so much, etc.
It's a tough issue, though, lots of
couples have to go through this. Good
luck.
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young Girl
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