I am 14 and I don't know if I am gay
streight or bi. I get a boner looking at
just hot girls, and when there is a penis
in the picture/video. Someone please help,
I don't want to be gay but there is no way
to cure it.... That I know of
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young Girl
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Posted: 10-06-07 17:51pm
ummm
if you are attracted to other guys then
your gay
if notb then your not gay
plus youre 14
youre young
you dont know much about yourself yet
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Tylanas
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Re: Gay????? Posted: 10-06-07 18:16pm
progtaplayer
wrote:
I am 14 and I don't know if
I am gay streight or bi. I get a boner
looking at just hot girls, and when there
is a penis in the picture/video. Someone
please help, I don't want to be gay but
there is no way to cure it.... That I know
of
1. At your age, MATH class could give you
a boner. That doesn't mean you have a
fetish for math questions. You're entering
puberty and you're going to get random
hard-ons.
2. You're still young! Everything sexual
is going to make you hard at this point.
When you see a penis on screen, you're
probably thinking about your own and
pretending the one on screen is yours.
That's not gay, that's called projection.
3. HOMOSEXUALITY IS NOT A DISEASE. It is
like having red hair, or blue eyes, or
dark skin, or big feet. You cannot and
should not change it. It is natural.
4. You are too young to really know if you
are gay or bi yet. Which do you prefer?
When you walk down the hall at school,
would you rather kiss a girl or a guy? If
you pick girl, you're mostly straight. If
you want to kiss guys, then you're mostly
gay. But at your age, you simply may not
know!
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-06-07 20:51pm
Getting a boner from seeing a penis is
perfectly normal- it causes you to think
about sex, so you get turned on.
It doesn't mean your fantasizing about
penises.
Wait a while, don't think too much about
it, and see how things turn out. I agree
with what Eiri said.
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theLway
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Posted: 10-11-07 06:05am
hay im 16 and im think im defintly bi lol
im attracted 2 both sexes i dnt want 2 be
i wish i was straight and it annoys me
really badly lol i fancy girls and i
fantazise bout boys lol is dis jus a phase
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-11-07 09:22am
theLway
wrote:
hay im 16 and im think im
defintly bi lol im attracted 2 both sexes
i dnt want 2 be i wish i was straight and
it annoys me really badly lol i fancy
girls and i fantazise bout boys lol is dis
jus a phase
Sexuality is part of who you are inside.
It is part of your DNA, just like your
hair color and height. There is nothing
you should do to try to change it. Being
gay or bisexual or straight is all NATURAL
and don't let anyone tell you otherwise
Today is National Coming Out Day. October
11th. Celebrate your sexuality! I'm
wearing a shirt today that says "I support
Equality!" There are also shirts that say
"Out And Proud!"
Be who you are!!
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-11-07 12:23pm
Don't worry about it so much. If you are
bi, that's ok!! Just let it happen and see
who you end up with.
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obi-wan kenobi
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Re: Gay????? Posted: 10-12-07 17:39pm
Eiri
wrote:
1. At your age, MATH class
could give you a boner. That doesn't mean
you have a fetish for math questions.
You're entering puberty and you're going
to get random
hard-ons.
