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lrsmith
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Am I Pregnant?
Posted: 10-07-07 08:26am
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I just recently lost my virginity to my
boyfriend about one week ago today. I was
not on the pill and he did not wear a
condom. I am 20 years old. He did not
ejaculate? inside me. He did masturbate
before we had sex and then after. The next
day (less than 12 hours after we had sex)
I took the Plan B day after pill and the
second pill exactly 12 hours later. That
night we had unprotected sex again, but he
masturbated only afterwards this time.
Its been a week and I think I started my
period. I've been reading about early
signs of pregnancy online and read that
spotting or implantation bleeding is not
uncommon. Could I be pregnant or could
this be my period? I'm not supposed to
start for at least another 2 weeks. I am
experiencing nausea and cramping along
with a headache which can be normal for me
on my period. I have never had a period
this early and have been pretty regular
for the past year or so. I have been
really stressed about the possibility of
being pregnant, even with taking Plan B.
Can you help? Should I see a doctor or
take a pregnancy test?
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Posted: 10-07-07 08:46am
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okay
masturbating before or after sex makes no
difference..
he can still have pre-ejaculate that can
get you pregnant
the first time when you took the plan B
you probably did not
get pregnant
but since you did not take Plan B the
second time you could have
gotten pregnant..
you wouldn't be experiencing symptoms this
soon...
wait til you miss your period
and take a test
and please use birth control if you don't
want a baby
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Posted: 10-07-07 10:29am
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1. The pull-out method is not a method, it
can get you pregnant.
2. You can get pregnant anytime of the
month, you never know when you are
actually ovulating
3. Sperm do not die immediately on contact
with the air
4. You can get pregnant during the 1st
time
5. You can get pregnant from
pre-ejaculate,
6. Stressing can make your period late,
even if you are not pregnant.
7. The only way to know if you are
pregnant for sure is to take a test. You
can not find out by looking at your
symptoms. Test.
oh and if you dont want a kid then its
simple solution...GET ON BIRTH CONTROL
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Posted: 10-07-07 10:33am
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Please get on birth control. It is cheaper
than plan b and cheaper than having a
child. Plus sex is way more fun if you
don't have to worry about unintended
pregnancy!
Good luck!
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Posted: 10-07-07 10:35am
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Seriously, if you don't want a baby then
use birth control. Or atleast use a
condom. Unprotected sex = pregnany. It's
doubtful you'd be having symptoms so soon.
Test if you miss your period.
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lrsmith
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Posted: 10-07-07 10:49am
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i realize that unprotected sex = pregnancy
and that if i was having sex and didnt
want to get pregnant that i should be on
birth control.
it was NOT planned. it just happened.
I am currently spotting a darkish brown
red. But I'm not supposed to start my
period until the 23rd and i've been pretty
regular for the past year. I'm not
following all of the normal signs of my
period either.
I'm sorry. I know I seem stupid. I am
stupid for letting it happen. I was just
curious and worried about it. I regret the
choice I made. I was looking for some
information and possible help. I was not
looking to be patronized. I know what I
did was stupid. I dont need anymore
reminders.
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Posted: 10-07-07 10:56am
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| lrsmith
wrote: | i realize that unprotected
sex = pregnancy and that if i was having
sex and didnt want to get pregnant that i
should be on birth control.
it was NOT planned. it just happened.
I am currently spotting a darkish brown
red. But I'm not supposed to start my
period until the 23rd and i've been pretty
regular for the past year. I'm not
following all of the normal signs of my
period either.
I'm sorry. I know I seem stupid. I am
stupid for letting it happen. I was just
curious and worried about it. I regret the
choice I made. I was looking for some
information and possible help. I was not
looking to be patronized. I know what I
did was stupid. I dont need anymore
reminders. |
well the brown blood could be lots of
things
could be old blood
could be a sign your period is comming
eraly
could be implantation bleeding
no matter if all of your periods for the
past 5 yrs have been on time every month
sometimes you get irregular
wait til after a missed period and then
take a pregnancy test
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Posted: 10-07-07 10:57am
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| lrsmith
wrote: | i realize that unprotected
sex = pregnancy and that if i was having
sex and didnt want to get pregnant that i
should be on birth control.
it was NOT planned. it just happened.
I am currently spotting a darkish brown
red. But I'm not supposed to start my
period until the 23rd and i've been pretty
regular for the past year. I'm not
following all of the normal signs of my
period either.
I'm sorry. I know I seem stupid. I am
stupid for letting it happen. I was just
curious and worried about it. I regret the
choice I made. I was looking for some
information and possible help. I was not
looking to be patronized. I know what I
did was stupid. I dont need anymore
reminders. |
I didn't call you stupid, and I was not
trying to patronize you. It could be
implantation bleeding. A hpt wouldn't be
able to tell if you're pregnant yet nor
would a blood test. You're just going to
have to wait and see what happens.
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Posted: 10-07-07 10:58am
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I wasn't pinpointing anyone. I was just
replying. Did I mention that I'm extremely
moody? lol
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Posted: 10-07-07 11:00am
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| lrsmith
wrote: | | I wasn't pinpointing anyone.
I was just replying. Did I mention that
I'm extremely moody?
lol |
yes im moody too lol
30 weeks pregnant and im ready to get it
over with
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Posted: 10-07-07 11:01am
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| lrsmith
wrote: | | I wasn't pinpointing anyone.
I was just replying. Did I mention that
I'm extremely moody?
lol |
We all are, it's the pregnancy forum mood
swings are to be expected. 
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Posted: 10-07-07 13:49pm
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| beepbeep176
wrote: | | lrsmith
wrote: | | I wasn't pinpointing anyone.
I was just replying. Did I mention that
I'm extremely moody?
lol |
We all are, it's the pregnancy forum mood
swings are to be expected. |
not to mention i've been like on edge ever
since last sunday. and it seems like
everything reminds me of it! lol i guess i
just have to stay calm and wait it out.
thanks for the help and replies.
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Posted: 10-07-07 13:49pm
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| lrsmith
wrote: | | beepbeep176
wrote: | | lrsmith
wrote: | | I wasn't pinpointing anyone.
I was just replying. Did I mention that
I'm extremely moody?
lol |
We all are, it's the pregnancy forum mood
swings are to be expected. |
not to mention i've been like on edge ever
since last sunday. and it seems like
everything reminds me of it! lol i guess i
just have to stay calm and wait it out.
thanks for the help and
replies. |
yes dont stress because stress can cause a
missed period! good luck and let us know
what happens!
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Posted: 10-07-07 13:49pm
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| lrsmith
wrote: | | I wasn't pinpointing anyone.
I was just replying. Did I mention that
I'm extremely moody?
lol |
FYI
Mood swings dont happen that early.
Sounds to me like u WANT to be pregnant
and are trying to find any symptom to make
u seem that way.
Not trying to be rude... just an
observation.
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Posted: 10-07-07 13:57pm
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | | lrsmith
wrote: | | I wasn't pinpointing anyone.
I was just replying. Did I mention that
I'm extremely moody?
lol |
FYI
Mood swings dont happen that early.
Sounds to me like u WANT to be pregnant
and are trying to find any symptom to make
u seem that way.
Not trying to be rude... just an
observation. |
*takes out binoculars to better observe*
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Posted: 10-07-07 14:06pm
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | | lrsmith
wrote: | | I wasn't pinpointing anyone.
I was just replying. Did I mention that
I'm extremely moody?
lol |
FYI
Mood swings dont happen that early.
Sounds to me like u WANT to be pregnant
and are trying to find any symptom to make
u seem that way.
Not trying to be rude... just an
observation. |
No No No No No
Not to sound bad...but getting pregnant
right now would ruin my life. I'm a junior
in college and am busy with school/work
and trying to have a social life. I want
kids some day. But definitely not right
now. It is not the right time and it
scares the crap out of me. I sometimes
still cry thinking about the possibility.
I do not want to be/get pregnant. I'm just
trying to get all of the...views from
people who have been pregnant/know the
signs of pregnancy before a missed period.
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Posted: 10-07-07 14:23pm
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I know what your talking about when you
said everything reminds you of being
pregnant. I've been through that, but i
wasn't. Just really stressed that made my
period late like previously stated! And
moody could just mean PMS and if you got
PMS that means here comes your
period...and you said you started to bleed
right?
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Posted: 10-07-07 14:56pm
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| Keeba88
wrote: | | I know what your talking
about when you said everything reminds you
of being pregnant. I've been through that,
but i wasn't. Just really stressed that
made my period late like previously
stated! And moody could just mean PMS and
if you got PMS that means here comes your
period...and you said you started to bleed
right? |
Yea, I did. But its lighter than my usual
period, my boobs aren't huge (like
normally when I'm on my period), I don't
have cramps really (usually my cramps are
so bad I can't function without almost
overdosing on advil and a heating pad),
and I'm nauseas. I've never felt that way
on my period. And my back hurts, but that
sometimes happens when I'm on my period.
The thing that makes me nervous is the
lightness, the brownish/red color, and the
no cramps.
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Posted: 10-07-07 14:58pm
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| lrsmith
wrote: | | Keeba88
wrote: | | I know what your talking
about when you said everything reminds you
of being pregnant. I've been through that,
but i wasn't. Just really stressed that
made my period late like previously
stated! And moody could just mean PMS and
if you got PMS that means here comes your
period...and you said you started to bleed
right? |
Yea, I did. But its lighter than my usual
period, my boobs aren't huge (like
normally when I'm on my period), I don't
have cramps really (usually my cramps are
so bad I can't function without almost
overdosing on advil and a heating pad),
and I'm nauseas. I've never felt that way
on my period. And my back hurts, but that
sometimes happens when I'm on my period.
The thing that makes me nervous is the
lightness, the brownish/red color, and the
no cramps. |
its too early for these types of sytoms to
show up
so even if you are preg what youre feeling
isnt from that
its wayy to early
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Posted: 10-07-07 20:22pm
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Posted: 10-07-07 2:06pm
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rainfire1424 wrote:
lrsmith wrote:
I wasn't pinpointing anyone. I was just
replying. Did I mention that I'm extremely
moody? lol
FYI
Mood swings dont happen that early.
Sounds to me like u WANT to be pregnant
and are trying to find any symptom to make
u seem that way.
Not trying to be rude... just an
observation.
No No No No No
Not to sound bad...but getting pregnant
right now would ruin my life. I'm a junior
in college and am busy with school/work
and trying to have a social life. I want
kids some day. But definitely not right
now. It is not the right time and it
scares the crap out of me. I sometimes
still cry thinking about the possibility.
I do not want to be/get pregnant. I'm just
trying to get all of the...views from
people who have been pregnant/know the
signs of pregnancy before a missed period.
well sweetie i am just gunna let you
know.. not everyone is always ready and im
sorry if your not religious but i am gunna
tell you this. my husband and i were not
trying nor were we ready either to have a
baby bun things happen for a reason. and
god well never put anything on you if he
thinks you cant handle it.. we were not
ready for naomi but now that we are having
her we could not be any happier.. i agree
you couldn't be having signs like this yet
and stress only makes it worse so sweetie
just take a breather calm down and rest
cause if you are you need your energy if
your not you need to rest up to were you
can relieve the stress... hope my advise
helps sweetie
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