What exactly are the symptoms of post
traumatic stress disorder? Just woudl be a
good thing to know, with my husband
deployed and around people that see and do
alot of things that normal civilians
wouldnt do. Anyone personally affected can
tell me or if anyone finds good
information on it?
Thanks
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tnmommy
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Joined: 10 Oct 2007 Posts: 36
Symptoms Posted: 10-10-07 13:55pm
I am also a military wife. First off I
want to say thank you to you and your
husband for what he's doing. 2nd off I
was daginosed with PTSD. This is some of
the signs to look for.
Flashbacks or reliving the event for
minutes or even days at a time.
Shame or guilt (feeling like you could
have done something to prevent or avoided
the event.)
Upsetting dreams about the event.
Avoiding talking or thinking about the
event.
Emotionally numb or disconnected from
feelings
easily upset or angered
poor relationships
self-destructive behaviors, ex. drinking,
using drugs, even sex
Hopelessness about the future
trouble sleeping
memory problems, unable to concentrate,
startled or frightened easily
hearing or seeing things that aren't
there
losing intrest in activities
PTSD is often confused with depression
mostly because the pt. is not being honest
with the doctor and is downplaying some of
the symptoms. Depression usually has the
trouble sleeping, lost of intrest, memory
problems, the concentration, etc. so it
has easily been missed because the pt. is
not honest with the doctor.
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mel61
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Joined: 22 Jan 2007 Posts: 13
My Experience With Ptsd... Posted: 10-28-07 02:17am
There is a great forum called Healing
Wounds, on PTSD. I have PTSD and am taking
anti-depressants to help me cope. I feel
150% better now than I did only 7mths ago.
I was an avoider...I basically didn't have
any emotions.
It went something like this...I would be
"triggered" (something would remind me on
the incident) and I would start to feel
the pain but I learned to turn it off...I
learned to turn my emotions off so I could
no longer feel the pain but I lost control
of it. I started to not feel anything, no
good emotions and no bad emotions...I was
like a robot. I felt empty and numb. My
friends, family and BF all said I changed
my personality drastically...they called
my cold and heartless. Which is how I
felt.
I stopped going outside...stopped doing
things I normally loved. I distanced
myself from everybody. I felt like I was
inside my own body watching life not
living it. I had no idea there was a
condition called PTSD.
Finally I went to the doctor and told her
that I was having trouble with my periods.
I was so stressed and depressed I stopped
having my period. She asked me if I was
under any stress and I burst out into
tears.... Then she helped me.
I was sooo scared to take the anti-d's but
she asked me to trust her and I'm so glad
I did. It took about 2 months before I
started to get pieces of myself back. Now,
I'm happy and I love life (and myslef)
again.
Do you think you have PTSD or does your
husband have it?
Neither at the moment, i was just
wondering the symptoms, my husband is in
afghanistan right now, and i know ptsd is
a big thing with the soldiers, and i just
wanna know what to look for , if he starts
acting not himself or something.
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eguest4um
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Joined: 08 Mar 2008 Posts: 3
Treated for PTSD Posted: 03-08-08 23:32pm
Hi, I suffered greatly from PTSD. My PTSD
was a result of my experiences with 9/11
and my experiences in New Orleans
following Katrina. PTSD was very confusing
and I had no idea what was happening to
me. I consider myself lucky. I don't
drink or use drugs, but I was growing
incredibly irritable and impossible to
live with. I would become so angry over
the smallest things that I would nearly
black out from my anger. Most people knew
me as a very quiet and generous person,
but here's an example of how PTSD was
tearing apart my life: we missed the pay
date on a credit card bill and were
charged a late fee of only $30. I was so
enraged I tore a door of its hinges
obviously costing me more in repairs than
the $30. My therapist said, emotinally, I
had no reserve. I was functioning, but I
had reached my limit.
Now I couldn't figure out why I was acting
this way, but that's not what brought me
to a therapist. Whenever co-workers or
people learned I had very personal
experiences with 9/11 and Katrina, they
would ask me a lot of questions. If
people around me would comment, "why can't
those people (New Yorkers or others
affected) just get over it." You could
imagine my response to them.
Sometimes though, I was being asked by a
boss or it would come up at a business
meeting. I felt myself re-living the
event and sometimes couldn't control
myself and start crying - even though in
both events, I was able to complete the
tasks I had to complete, keep my teams
safe and I never broke down. Of course,
even now, I would have vivid nightmares of
what I witnessed, but I thought that was
perfectly normal. The crying in front of
colleagues was a bit much for me, so I
decided to see a therapist through my
employers Employee Assistance Program. It
was there I was diagnosed with PTSD.
I'll never regret going to that therapist,
but I will tell you, it was unnerving
living the events in front of the poor guy
and hearing him struggle to contain his
own emotion. I actually feel badly for
putting the poor super guy through it, but
I had to do it and I may have to do it
again. Some may start drinking or using
drugs, but for me, I feel a strange
edginess. Instead of just yelling at the
guy that cut me off, I may chase them and
veer my car toward theirs, narrowly
escaping a collision.
I guess the thing I want to communicate
is, be very supportive of your spouse if
he/she decides to learn about why they're
acting very strangely. Understand that it
may be a long road they have to travel.
Don't bother asking them to relive the
nightmare in front of you. It actually
could be very traumatizing to you. I feel
like it may have been for my therapist.
One last thing, thank you to your family
for their sacrifice in serving. Others
may have forgotten why we're there, but as
you can guess, I haven't forgotten.
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