Been to Doctor But Nothing Wrong. Posted: 10-08-07 07:11am
Hello,
Basic back ground stuff, I'm 20 years old,
doing a sport to international standard so
extremely fit and have a really healthy
diet.
I had pain in my groin about 2 years ago
and the pain decended down into my
testicals and was very uncomfortable.
went to the doctor, he checked for a
hernia, testicals and also did a prostate
exam. ^ weeks ago the same pain came back
but feels nearly behind the testicals so i
immeiately thought prostate. Went back to
the doc knowing that it was probably a
groin strain today, however he didn't
check the prostate which was a bit
annoying.
Basically i've only ever had a couple of
sexual partners and been with my current
one for a year and a half. I only had sex
for the first time at 18 and had been out
drinking so lasted a very long time, not
sure exactly but i remeber her saying "you
could go on all night" so i'm guessing a
while. However anytime i have slept with
my current girlfriend i come within
several thrusts most times with the max
being just over a minute and this is with
durex preforma condom on!. I am
circumcised and feel the glans of my penis
are very sensitive. However anytime we
have sex after a night of drinking(which
is not very often due to training!) i last
much longer.
I get erections extremely easily and while
kissing her and during foreplay i feel
nearly overexcited and like it won't take
much stimulation to ejaculate and then
upon intercourse it only takes a few
thrusts.
The doctor just said it was psycological
and that over time should correct itself.
I'm currently trying the stop start
masturbation and keegles hoping they will
help and next time we have sex i'm going
to put the preforma condom on a few mins
before intercourse as it has been
suggested that works,
do most guys my age suffer from this and
what do you guys think from what i've told
you? I've reading the complete premature
ejaculation thread but it all seemed to go
towards drugs which i want to avoid!
Thanks
|
Georgia59
Moderator
Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5542 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
Thanks: 89
Thanked:31
Posted: 10-08-07 09:31am
Well a few things I can think of, though
the PE thread is really great and I don't
want to repeat what has been said on there
too much-
Drinking causes less sensitivity, which is
why you noticed that you lasted longer
when you were drunk. However, it probably
makes the experience less enjoyable for
you so I probably wouldn't recommend that.
As you age, it will probably get better.
Your hormones will calm down and you'll be
able to last longer.
In the meantime, keep working on what you
are working on. And during sex, try to
take the pressure off yourself. Stimulate
the girl manually/orally before sex so she
can orgasm and you don't feel pressured to
please her, then when you are near the end
of the night you can go ahead with
intercourse, knowing that it's ok if you
only last a minute because you already
spent so much time on her! Sound good?
