My boyfriend wants me to give him oral
sex...Do any of you have suggestions for
how to do it best? Also, I'm wondering
what it's like when he ejaculates; whether
it tastes bad and whether or not I should
swallow it.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-08-07 21:29pm
Do YOU want to give him oral sex?
1. Unless you've seen a clean bill of
health from an STD check, use a condom.
This means you don't have to worry about
the taste of semen or whether or not to
swallow.
2. It is safe to swallow if you do go
unprotected. Taste varies from man to man.
3. Go slow, lick around, explore, and pay
attention to his responses!
4. DO NOT try to deep throat. There's no
point, and it's difficult. Most of the
sensitivity of a penis is on the head, so
pay attention to that.
5. Get your hands involved! A technique
that works well for me is to place a fist
around the shaft, pressed up against my
lips. I go up and down that way. The shaft
gets pressure, and my throat remains
unbruised
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-08-07 21:29pm
You can swallow if you like, or not. It's
really up to you.
As for the taste- all men taste different,
and they taste different on different days
too! I think it has to do with what they
eat or something. I know for a fact that
sometimes my guy tastes really bad, and
sometimes I can't taste anything at all.
Give it a try though, even when it's bad
it's not that bad.
As for technique, anything goes! Suck,
kiss, lick, nibble (very very gently!)
everything. Ask him what he likes, he's
probably masturbated enough to tell you!
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sillysallie1990
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Posted: 10-08-07 23:59pm
be sure to buy condoms made for oral sex
because regular latex tastes totally
disgusting...even peanut butter can not
take the taste away!!!
all i can say is different guys like
different things lol just go for it and
ask him to tell you when you do something
he likes and to show you how he likes it.
I have found that my man likes for me to
vary my technique so slip some suprises in
there evry once in a while. the hand
thing thateiri talked about works very
well.
hope this helps and good luck!!
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silentbear777
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Joined: 09 Oct 2007 Posts: 32 Location: Portland, Oregon
Posted: 10-09-07 02:25am
For oral with a guy, make sure first he is
clean. NO STD's. most guys like a lot of
differnt things, buy a vast majority of
the feeling is in the head, actually when
getting intimate a guy cant really feel
anything below 1/2 an inch of the head
really. so dont worry about getting a lot
into your mouth... as for taste... usually
salty, kinda bitter, depends on the diet
of the person, a lot of red meat will
cause it to be more bitter and
astringent... sharp tasteing. More
sweets... like Chocolate, will cause it to
be more sweet... naturallys sweet things
like Tea, will help... And as for
swallowing, that is up to you, there is
nothing bad about it. There are 14
calories of Protien on average. no more
then a small bite of steak so have fun.
And one advice, is try and keep your teeth
from sliding against him lol it doesent
feel good >_<
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-09-07 10:16am
As for teeth, that varies from man to man!
My last bf LOVED teeth. Some guys hate it.
Give a nibble and see how he reacts.
But no teeth if you're using a condom!!
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emerald1
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Joined: 26 Sep 2007 Posts: 83
Posted: 10-09-07 14:08pm
My new bf loves for me to use my teeth and
also likes for me to lick underneath the
head.
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Rosie H
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Posted: 10-09-07 14:20pm
Have fun, thats my advise. oh and do what
everyone else said.
One thing to spice it up is ice. Crush it
in your mouth and then go down on him the
cold sensation could be really hot. Or
stick your hand in the freezer and then
touch him or his balls.
Please ASK BEFORE you do this. Some guys
would not like it.
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Roberta777
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Oral Sex Posted: 10-09-07 14:29pm
I totally loved giving my boyfriend oral
sex. He loved watching me as I gave him
pleasure. To hear him moaning was great.
Use your tongue to make sweet little
upward licks onto the head of his penis.
Just kiss and love it as you love your
man.
There is truth to what Georgia and Eiri
said. Different foods do affect the taste
of a man.
I was never into oral sex until this man
came into my life. I guess when you
really love someone, it is a great part of
being completely with them.
Someone once wrote in to this forum,
"Before you feast on the penis platter,
make sure your partner is free from
STD's." Good, sound advise.
And, oral sex is great for both partners.
Has he ever initiated oral sex to give you
pleasure. Remember, it is a two way
street in lovemaking.
Sounds like you have a lot of adventure
ahead of you.
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silentbear777
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Joined: 09 Oct 2007 Posts: 32 Location: Portland, Oregon
Posted: 10-09-07 19:36pm
Rosie H
wrote:
Have fun, thats my advise.
oh and do what everyone else said.
One thing to spice it up is ice. Crush it
in your mouth and then go down on him the
cold sensation could be really hot. Or
stick your hand in the freezer and then
touch him or his balls.
Please ASK BEFORE you do this. Some guys
would not like
it.
Eww... Ice, I dont like ice >_>
Though one of my friends says she loves
having sex with an icecube inside her...
though not my personal cup of tea lol
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JackJill
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Joined: 10 Oct 2007 Posts: 33 Location: ,
Posted: 10-11-07 15:06pm
Silentbear, although you're right about
the natural sugar making a man taste
sweeter, chocolate will actually make you
taste bitter. Pineapple and citrus fruit
is probably the best. Basically if your
mister eats a healthy diet, he's liable to
taste better or be tasteless.
As for technique, deep throating is hard.
Eiri is right, you can bruise the back of
your throat, and it's painful. Don't let
him thrust into your mouth like he does
your vagina, because you might throw up.
There's this thing called a gag reflex
Some people overcome it, some people have
a really sensitive gag reflex.
With deep throating the guys only really
like it because every body says it feels
the best. It's actually the same sensation
as if you pursed your lips and pushed his
head through them while gripping his
shaft. It's really up to you.
You could also twist your head as you're
going down his shaft. My man loves that.
the sensation is great, and it's probably
the same motion when he masturbates. Watch
him masturbate, it's a great way to find
out how he pleases himself and what feels
best for him.
Other than that, when you're going down on
him enjoy it. I love every inch of my
man's penis, and I let him see and feel
that. He should reciprocate when he's
going down on you.
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WShep
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Joined: 04 Oct 2007 Posts: 67 Location: SoCal, USA
Posted: 10-11-07 15:31pm
Dude again....but every guys different.
1. I loved the heat.
2. I hate the hands.
3. Deep throat or more than just an inch
down was great cuz my girl could do it
without even a flinch, thats for you to
decide. Thrusting=bad bad bad, id get a
little nibble if I started to with a
little evil eye...all the response i
needed to stop. The side mouth technique
and using your lips can indeed cause the
same feeling, but i still like the former
more.
4. It has as much to do with watching and
being totally serviced as it does the
feeling, I agree with that.
5. If i got mine, she sure as heck wanted
hers.
We both would grab a part of the one doing
the servicing; hand, shoulder wrist etc..
Feels good?...give him a squeeze.....not
feeling good?.... lack of squeezing told
me to mix it up. Took me a few times to
learn that you can over sensitize that
spot, wouldn't know if she didn't tell
me.
The taste thing is funny. We were
together for 4 years so stds werent an
issue as we were both checked. Some days
it was bitter....some days it was like
nothing...im totally lost as to why that
is, gotta be diet or frequency of
ejaculation.