I'm terrified that I'm frigid.. I've had 3
different partners who I've had sexual
relationships with and even though the sex
is great i can't even get close to
climax..Sad I've masturbated since i was
about 14 and still haven't orgasmed, i
know what my body likes but theres still
nothing!!!
I've set my current boyfriend on a mission
to make me orgasm (which is very fun..!
Wink) but as satisfying as the sex is
theres still no orgasm and its getting
seriously frustrating!!! Its also pretty
hard on him, not being able to get me off
and I don't want him to think its his
fault(hes the perfect size, good length,
good girth!)Has anyone any idea of a
solution??!
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young Girl
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Posted: 10-09-07 11:52am
only 10% of women can vaginally orgasm
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-09-07 12:23pm
so you can't orgasm from masturbation
either?
Personally, I'd bring it up with my gyno.
I doesn't really sound like a mental thing
since you seem pretty open to sex. It
might just be that you need to keep your
boyfriend on his mission for a while, but
you will want to rule out physical causes.
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silentbear777
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Joined: 09 Oct 2007 Posts: 32 Location: Portland, Oregon
Posted: 10-09-07 19:51pm
Do you have anything pierced? While
clitoris piercings are somewhat popular
and what not, if done incorrectly by a bad
piercer, or someone inexperienced it can
kill off the nerves in your clitoris. Just
a note. Also, If anything else is pierced
it could be the same thing...
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-09-07 19:54pm
I don't think getting your nose pierced
will make your clitoris numb You mean any labial
piercings I assume.
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young Girl
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Posted: 10-10-07 08:46am
Eiri
wrote:
I don't think getting your
nose pierced will make your clitoris numb
You mean any labial
piercings I
assume.
lol nope i have my nose pierced and my
clitoris isnt numb at all!
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Rosie H
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Posted: 10-10-07 14:13pm
have you tried vibrators?
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Loves Chocolate
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Joined: 02 Jun 2007 Posts: 10
Reply Posted: 10-17-07 05:53am
Nope, I haven't tried any sex toys cos
i've only just moved from home and before
it was too embarrasing if the parents were
to find anything in my room!!
Don't have any piercings either so can't
be that i guess...Do u thnk its advisable
to see a gyno in case theres actually
something medically wrong?!I'd love to
have kids in the future so I really hope
theres nothing wrong there that could stop
that..
Also maybe buy a vibrator...:)xx
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Mommy35
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Posted: 10-17-07 10:07am
Maybe you are putting too much thought
into having an orgasm. Try to relax and
enjoy the moment and put the big O in the
back of your mind and it will happen for
you
Good luck and have fun trying anyway
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Rm080781
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Joined: 15 Oct 2007 Posts: 29 Location: , SC
Posted: 10-17-07 17:09pm
I would suggest talking to your dr and a
"toy" or 2 couldnt hurt....lol We have a
few. Also there are some creams that can
make the area more sensitive (can also get
those from the "toy store"...lol-but those
arent for everyone....)
You mean any labial
piercings I assume.
