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tassha

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When Did I Conceive??
Posted: 10-09-07 20:24pm

okay i got myself into a really bad situation and i absoulty hate myself for it your help is much appriciated!!
during the month of august i slept with two different men one of which was my bf and the other was just a friend(really big mistake)
i got my period July 23 and I had sex with my bf from the time of July 23 everyday untill August 10th with out a condom.
I had sex with the other guy with a condom on August 20th.
i discussed this with my doctor and she said i was already about 2 weeks pregnant by the time i slept with the 2nd guy. my due date is april 29 2008.
i am really concerned about this. i need to know who the father is. can my doctor be sure of this? the dates are 100% correct. please help me and thank you!!!
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Posted: 10-09-07 20:31pm

If you were already pregnant when you slept with the second guy, he obviously didn't get you pregnant. Plus you used a condom. Condoms are pretty effective if used properly.
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Posted: 10-09-07 20:32pm

yes but can she be sure i was alrady pregnant? im just really confused how can she be certian??
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Posted: 10-09-07 20:34pm

She's most likely going off the date of your last period. When you get an ultrasound, they'll be able to date your pregnancy accurately.
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tassha

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Posted: 10-09-07 20:40pm

i have had 3 ultra sounds and she said there isnt a way to tell when i conceived
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Posted: 10-09-07 20:42pm

No, but they can tell how many weeks the baby is at the time of the ultrasound. If you count back, you can get a general idea of when you conceived.
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Posted: 10-11-07 22:57pm

if your period was regular (around 28 days and all that) than having sex with him on the 20th, when your period came a full 4 weeks earlier, there's a VERY SLIM chance he's the father. and PLEASE DON"T STRESS!! It's so bad for you and your baby. The doctor was going from what you told her, and she sounds right when she said you were already 2 weeks pregnant. It of course could have been shorter, but it was way too late for him to have gotten you pregnant.

sorry it's so long, just kinda repeated myself, but hope I helped and again... DON"T STRESS!!
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