Joined: 08 Oct 2007 Posts: 34 Location: New Jersey, USA
Wanting to Conceive Posted: 10-10-07 13:06pm
I am 11 days late, but something tells me
I am not pregnant. Plus I keep getting a
BFN with HPTs. It took my husband and I 2
years to conceive our first child, which I
delivered 4 months ago. My husband is
going away for about 5 months January 3
and I want to try and conceive before he
leaves. Any suggestions? An ovulation
calendar worked with my son when I came
across one, but it didn't work last month
when I tried.
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Becky
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Posted: 10-10-07 13:52pm
why not wait until he comes back? 5 months
is a long time away from you when you are
pregnant. he will miss 4 months of it.
also, what if your ill? he can't be there
to support you and i don't think it's very
fair on him to miss out on your pregnancy,
scans and even possibly the birth.
if you have had BFN then you are most
likely not pregnant. your child is only 4
months old so you have plenty of time to
concieve. my advice would be to wait until
he comes back
good lcuk either way!
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Posted: 10-10-07 14:41pm
Are you breastfeading, because sometimes
that can mess with your cycles. Also it
does take a while for your cycles to get
back on track...so Ive heard...
If you are still unsure about it, ask for
a blood test.
And I agree with Becky, I would not want
my husband to be away while I was
pregnant. You need someone there to
comfort you and just be there for you if
you need him. Its not that far off.
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mommyb
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Joined: 08 Oct 2007 Posts: 34 Location: New Jersey, USA
Posted: 10-10-07 16:58pm
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wrote:
Are you breastfeading,
because sometimes that can mess with your
cycles. Also it does take a while for
your cycles to get back on track...so Ive
heard...
.
I am not breast feeding and I am not on
BC, my cycle started back up in July and I
have gotten it evey 26 days until this
month, which I am late for..
I do have a question though, if I just
skipped this month for my cycle would it
effect my ovulation? It is something that
my husband and I have discussed.. His
family lives close and we are currently
staying with my family until he finishes
BT and AIT for the Army, and then will be
geetting our own house when he gets out
through the Army..
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