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Q: Im 12weeks Pregnant And Not Sure Who the Father Is

asked by: hunkgs1 on October 10th, 2007

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Today I am 12weeks pregnant and still not sure who the father is. Im not sure when exactly my last menstrual period was. On July 1,2007, I had sex with my ex and he released in me couple of times. I had a pregnancy test done on 7/13 and it was negative. My period started around 7/17 and it was normal. Then I had sex with my husband on 7/28,7/29,7/30 and he came in me all these days. My period started again 8/10 but it was not normal (I think). I took a pregnancy test on 8/24 & 8/28 and both test were positive. So, Im a little confused! Is my ex ruled out to be the father or is it possible that it could be his? I have not had sex with him since July 1st. The ultrasound confirmed my due date is April 22, 2008 which landed my conception date be July 31st. But I want to be sure that its not my ex baby.

Replies(8)

number game

replied on October 10th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

I would probably say that you could rule out your ex.....but that's my geuss. I'm no expert that's for sure!

jessamyn

replied on October 10th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

Personally I would rule out the ex, does your husband know about that?

Mabel

replied on October 10th, 2007

Moderator

There is a 4 week difference between the conception date and when you had sex with your ex. It is highly doubtful that he would be the father or you'd be further along.

hunkgs1

replied on October 11th, 2007

New User

well, just got back from my doctor's appt. according to my midwifery, there could be NO way my ex be the dad after dicussing it with her. My other concern was my belly is already showing like Im 4 or 5 months pregnant. Is it possible I maybe further long than what the ultrasound indicated, but according to my ultrasound the fetus is only 12wks old and only 1 baby. She assured me that is the most effecient and accurate information. Well, I dont know I hope she's right as well as the Ultrasound. But at this point Im having second thoughts, because of how big my belly is and I dont wanna put my marriage in jeopardy. I love my husband and my 3 children very very much....Any inputs would be helpful

Mabel

replied on October 11th, 2007

Moderator

You are bigger because you've already given birth before. Your uterus and your stomach muscles are already 'stretched' and know what is happening this time around.

The ultrasound dating is accurate.

jessamyn

replied on October 12th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

Its usually pretty accurate if youve had an ultrasound they can usually tell you how far along you are. All woman show differently I know woman whom ahve been 30 weeks and bareeelly showing where as other have a bump at 12 weeks and their child is the size of a pea. hahah

hunkgs1

replied on October 12th, 2007

New User

Thank You For All Your Replys

I just want to thank you all have replied to my concerns, I've prayed last night and this morning for some guidance and I feel much better today so far. I feel confident and comfortable now and want to enjoy my pregnancy with no more doubts about the father. Again thanks for all your inputs and opinions, its helped me alot to move forward Laughing

Mommyof5girls

replied on October 12th, 2007

New User

You know there is no reason to believe your ex is the father. i think you are just feeling guilty. your conceive date was july 31st and you had sex with your ex july first. so diffinately not his. your stomach is Bigger cause you already had kids. i know my stomach got bigger every pregnancy. So enjoy your pregnancy it is your Husbands. Don't doubt it anymore cause it will just eat you up inside. Take care.

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