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Q: Big Fat Present

asked by: nadia19 on October 10th, 2007

Experienced User

One I didn't want.

I've been on the pill for the last 6 months, I broke up with my boyfriend mid August had stopped taking the pills just cuz of stress and what now.

One drunken night I had sex with my ex from highschool (we've been really good friends) The next day I got totally freaked out and went into the Sex Health Centre and took Plan B and the very next day started the pill and have been taking it RELIGIOUSLY.

I guess Plan B didn't work. I went in today to pick up a new pack and asked her if it's normal to skip your period on the pill (I haven't had it yet) and she recommended a pregnancy test.

Sad

It's positive. I don't want to do. I can't have a baby right now but there's no way I can abort it. No way. How am I supposed to tell the father? How am I supposed to be a single mom? How?

I'm a responisble person, I'm very mature, I'm financially secure (I have 8 grand saved up for UNIVERSITY in September) I guess that's going down the drain.

Ughhh... Excuse me while I go drown my sorrows and soul in self shame and regret.

Replies(5)

number game

replied on October 10th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

Well if you can't abort ( which I think is wrong anyways and that's just MY opinion and is totally off the subject and not worth getting in to a discussion over) have you though about giving the baby up for adoption?

nadia19

replied on October 10th, 2007

Experienced User

I haven't really had much time to think. Everything just happened 2 hours ago but of course it's an option. I'm just afraid I'll get way too attached to the baby and won't want to give her/him up.

number game

replied on October 10th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

that's true. Well I wish you lots of luck in deciding what's right for you!

jessamyn

replied on October 10th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

Calm down breathe hun is your first step.

Fell free to contact me as muchhhh as you want I went through it alone too.
You first need to tell him before you think of any of your options, and if you are keeping the pregnancy stop taking birth control immedietly!

Although hard emotionally, if you cannot abort, have you considered adoption?

Before all the stress kicks in please calm down and think of your options. You need to tell those close to you, and get into a doctor immedietly whether you are keepingthe baby or not. Because say you think you arent, and then change your mind... you just missed out on atleast 2 vital doctors appointments... I had my first ultrasound at 8 weeks.

young Girl

replied on October 10th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

you have options

you can have the baby
yo9u can abort
or you can give the baby for adoption

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