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JackJill

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He Drips Posted: 10-11-07 14:39pm


As in, it beads on the tip of his penis. I realize it is natural, however, is there anyway he can make it stop? I personally don't really mind but I've never felt him without a condom. Which I'd like to, even if it is only for a couple thrusts. He's the kind of guy who has always had sex with BC and a condom. I'm not blaming him, I'm in no position to be pregnant any time soon. But I'd love to feel some skin on skin. We're both clean, so we don't have to worry about any STD's. Any advice, views or if you can relate?

joeln1222

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Posted: 10-11-07 14:41pm


well if you want to feel some skin on skin you can just be on the birth control and if you want there are special things you can ask your doctor about its spermacide that you put in you vagina and it kills the sperm when it enters you

JackJill

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Posted: 10-11-07 14:45pm


I know I can just use birth control when having sex with him. It's him that doesn't feel comfortable inserting his penis in me because he leaks.

joeln1222

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Posted: 10-11-07 15:04pm


He shouldnt be uncomftorable with it becuase everyone leaks, its called precum and every man does it during sex and any sexual encounter. Its meant to be lubrication but it also contains sperm tell him not tot worry about it

Georgia59

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Posted: 10-11-07 15:14pm


Isn't that the point? You want it to leak! J/K I agree that a sponge or VCF (vaginal contraceptive film) would be a good alternate if he isn't trusting the birth control- skin on skin, but with the added protection. You don't need to get these from a doctor, either. It might irritate your vagina, though.

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Posted: 10-11-07 15:50pm


umm even if he puts it in for a "few thrusts" you could get preg

young Girl

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Posted: 10-11-07 15:54pm

JackJill wrote:

I know I can just use birth control when having sex with him. It's him that doesn't feel comfortable inserting his penis in me because he leaks.

yeah its pre ejaculate and you could get preg from it so hes being smart

use protection

JackJill

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Posted: 10-11-07 16:01pm


I want to sigh at people who think they know everything. Tibbs, I realize this, I'm not offended by white sticky fluid. Neither is he. We're just a little paranoid about pregnancy. Which is why we abstain from not using the condom. And GF, we do use protection. My main question was is there any way to stop it.

joeln1222

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Posted: 10-11-07 16:09pm


no its all natural and if you want to feel hskin to skin you need to take chances

JackJill

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Posted: 10-11-07 16:10pm


No thank you! Thanks for clearing things up Joel and Georgia!

young Girl

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Posted: 10-11-07 16:55pm

JackJill wrote:

I want to sigh at people who think they know everything.
Tibbs, I realize this, I'm not offended by white sticky fluid. Neither is he.
We're just a little paranoid about pregnancy. Which is why we abstain from not using the condom.
And GF, we do use protection.
My main question was is there any way to stop it.

right
if you are paranoid of pregnancy then dont do it because you could get pregnant from it!
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Happy

and no there is no way to stop him from dripping its going to happen

mr tibbs

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Apologies!
Posted: 10-12-07 11:35am

JackJill wrote:

JackJill - I apologise unreservedly for my rude answer to you. I misunderstood the reason for the understandable concern you have in your post.

My reply was crass and insensitive.

ImportRacer8107

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I Even Do It Posted: 10-12-07 12:52pm


Heck I even do the same thing as your boyfriend. I just didn't worry about it, except my girlfriend wants the same thing you want. Skin on Skin, I told her no because I don't trust my self. So she understood and we just deal with the condoms. But it's precum thats all.

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Posted: 10-12-07 13:38pm


Thanks tibbs and welcome to the board! If a penis goes into a vagina, even if you pull out, there is still a chance of pregnancy- so good job importracer for telling your gf no! But the op is on birth control, so she's fine with whatever they are comfortable with.

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