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Q: Pregnency Question

asked by: psykid on October 11th, 2007

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hello people, im new here.

anyway here is my problem.

im 24 and i have a girlfriend whos 21, in a period of two months we had unprotected sex for 6-7 times but she never got pregnent, so im worried if its okay to not get pregnent after mating so many times.

its been 4 months now we havent mated coz my girl doesnt wanna do that anymore but, but we have plans to get married after one year and then we will try for a family.

i dont know whether its a problem with me or with my girl.

im too afraid to go to a doctor and have a check up for myself and the same with my girl.

people say that u can get pregnent even if u do it once, so thats why i think im little worried.

any suggestion would be highly appreciated

Replies(11)

Bridget

replied on October 11th, 2007

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consider yourselves lucky.

it could take 1 time, it could take 10, it could take 100. it can take an average healthy couple up to a year to conceive, after a year a doctor will see you to assess things.

it took me 8 months to get pregnant the first time, the last time it only took 1 time.

psykid

replied on October 11th, 2007

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None

it could take 100 times? well i didnt know that but im happy to know how it works.

so i think i should not be worried for anything, its just normal and as u said after a year we can consult if by any chance we have issues.

but i think im still little worried regarding my sperm fertility, i dont know why.
do u think i should go to the doctor and have my sperms checked whether its healthy and fit ?? coz theres a notion going on my head regarding the same Sad

thanks for ur reply.

AyaMiyaki

replied on October 11th, 2007

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Girls don't automatically get pregnant every time they have sex. Just because she didn't get pregnant, it doesn't mean something is wrong with one of you. It means you two were lucky.

Chances are you're both fertile. I wouldn't worry about it until you two have been actively trying for a year or so.

krystineM

replied on October 12th, 2007

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my boyfriend and i have unprotected sex alot and a few nights ago he came inside me, and the past few days ive been craving like chocolate or pizza and have to go to the bathroom like crazy.. i know he know came inside me recently this week like on tuesday, and you dont get pregnancy signs a day or two later..but could i be pregnant bacause of the other times we had unprotected sex and now since he came inside me my egg could be fertlized again?

jillie81

replied on October 12th, 2007

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Psykid

I wouldnt stress about not being able to fall pregnant after 6 or 7 times. it took my husband and i 15 months to fall pregnant with our son.

KrystineM - i think you should take a test the day your periods are due. you normally wouldnt have signs this early - however i had really sore boobs 4 days before my periods were due so i tested and what do you know i was pregnant!

krystineM

replied on October 12th, 2007

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wow thats funny, just this week my boobs were kinda sore too and before my period was due they were a lot more sore

vanessalouanne

replied on October 12th, 2007

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if you were already pregnant you cant get pregnant again after having sex another time.

young Girl

replied on October 12th, 2007

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krystineM wrote:

wow thats funny, just this week my boobs were kinda sore too and before my period was due they were a lot more sore

sore boobs are also pms symtptoms
no your egg cant be fertilized again
Confused

krystineM

replied on October 12th, 2007

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k lol kno that sounded weird

psykid

replied on October 13th, 2007

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allrite people, i think i should not b worried for anything now, but i just have one more question, people who are not fertile.. what do they do in that case? is there a natural way to correct this problem and why this problems occurs, due to alcohol, tobacco?

young Girl

replied on October 13th, 2007

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psykid wrote:

you can go to a fertillity clinic about this
im nto sure

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