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krystineM

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Posted: 10-14-07 22:02pm

Maddie34 wrote:
*star* wrote:
And you want to have a baby even though you are currently smoking week, taking acid, Extacy, mushrooms and any other drug that you can get a hold of?????

You REALLY need to think about stopping the drugs before you even start to think about bringing a child into this world.

I guess that is why you don't have any money????


I was wondering when someone was going to bring that up. Very
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ok i AM NOT PLANNING ON HAVING A BABY NOW!!!
yes i smoke weed occasionally, and yeah i take acid and mushrooms once in a while. i DO NOT take Ecstacy.

When i am ready to have a baby its not like im gonna be on acid. when the time is right and i start planning to have a baby i will be off of the drugs i do. its not like im gonna be on them forever.
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Posted: 10-14-07 22:05pm

Yea, I know. I try not to judge people based on a forum post, and I was trying to be nice, but nevermind. She totally went overboard in the other board trash talking you, and being argumental with everyone's response. It's hard to know what to believe, let alone try to follow her story and "logic" behind her reasoning. But oh well, it's not my problem. I have better stuff to do...like hurt Thomas for saying that I'm gonna go into labor this week. haha.
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Posted: 10-14-07 22:32pm

if your not being careful and using protection then to most people it is the same as trying for a baby. What if you were pregnant, didn't know it and so you got high..Really,would you be willing to risk that and what it would do to your baby?
And I agree with Jessamyn..I tried for over a year with my ex to get pregnant, used the "pull out" method for 3 years with him...and never got pregnant. Then, I got pregnant with my now husband within 3 weeks of dating, you never know when it could happen.

And really, your being forced by a group of people over the internet to use birth control, sorry but I don't buy it. Your not going to do anything you don't want to and at 18 you think you know everything (most of us have been there)
So do what you want to do, obviously no one can force you to do a thing and frankly I don't think any of us care that much.
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Posted: 10-14-07 22:38pm

im not gonna bring a baby up in a drug envirnment!!
when im ready to have a baby i will not be on drugs.
if i were pregnant i would never take drugs at the same time im not that stupid! one of my friends did that while she was pregnant and her baby has some disabilities! im not that stupid.
yeah i do drugs now, but i will not do them when i want to have a baby.
im not ready for one now, but when i am i will be clean.
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Posted: 10-14-07 22:41pm

your having unprotected sex which means at any point you could be pregnant and your doing drugs>>> how would you know if you were pregnant or not due to the fact that you don't get symptoms until your about 6-8 weeks if not later>>
Does typing in all caps mean we're yelling?

I feel like i'm behind on all this new computer lingo.
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Posted: 10-14-07 22:50pm

i only do three drugs.
and of those three, i smoke weed more than anything. and to me, weed isnt a drug [to me] i havent done acid or mushrooms in about like 5 or 6 months now.

when my boyfriendsmother was pregnant with him, she smoked weed all throughout her pregnancy [NOT saying i will do the same] and he turned out fine. not saying that weed cant give birth defects, cuz i know they can.
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Posted: 10-14-07 22:56pm

Argh! Drugs are so nasty, in my opinion. I would NEVER do them even if I wasn't trying for a baby. You never know when you could end up pregnant, and even if you stopped doing them when you found out, doesn't mean that they haven't already had a negative effect on the baby. But that's just my opinion. You're free to do what you choose.
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Posted: 10-14-07 23:01pm

i see your point.

however compared to now, i smoke more weed rather than take a hallucogenic drug.
they say that mushrooms and acid is only a phase, you do it for a while then dont feel the need or urge to do them.
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Posted: 10-15-07 06:08am

Well Im glad you have finished experimenting with drugs...now for your health and the health of any unborn baby, STOP taking drugs.

Guess what???

WEED IS A DRUG!!!!

just because you think it has NO affect on you, doesnt mean that it isn't harmful.

You may not do all those drugs, but you admitted to doing them at some point and you were bragging about it
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Posted: 10-15-07 09:04am

Wow! Mind boggling. Drugs. Possible pregnancy. That is just insane and completely childish. Grow up. Stop taking drugs (all of them). Then consider having a family. Until then, use birth control.

I hope that isn't too hard for you to understand. You think you had a hard life taking care of your brothers at an early age, I would hope you'd have enough heart to make your child's life better!
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Posted: 10-15-07 10:00am

locked.

this has gone on long enough and it's not going anywhere. pm me if you have a problem with this.
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