Diagnosed With Hsv 2 - My Man Is Horrified Posted: 03-30-04 04:50am
I have been dating my man for about a year
now and having a wonderful time. I had
been with my ex husband for 8 years and we
got a divorce due to his cheating. Well
my man and I have been having unprotected
sex and I was just diagnosed with herpes.
My man has no symptoms and I didn't have
any either. I went in on a routine pap
and blood test.
He is really shakened up and he told me
that he needs some time and space. Does
this really mean that he wants to let our
relationship go or if he really needs time
to get his thoughts together. The doctor
told him that give it up to three weeks to
see if he has contracted this horrible
virus.
I am on pins and needles. I'm figuring
that if he has it then he may consider our
relationship a keeper since we were doing
perfectly well until the news or if he
doesn't have it then he's going to throw
me to do the dogs and to hell with me.
I'm so nervous and scared of what his
outcome will be. I had no idea about
this virus inside of me. I was surprised
just as well as he was. He has totally
shut me out. He won't call me or come
by. It's like he's blaming me for this
thing. I don't want to lose him - he's
my
everything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Is there anything else that we can do to
come to some kind of solution (every
moment I pray about our situation)!
Guys please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Is
there hope for us!!!!
thanks
blackstallion
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 03-30-04 04:56am
Ultimately if he loves you he is not going
to throw away your relationship. But at
the same time this news does not make him
happy, same as you. The difference is,
if he has not yet contracted it, then he
has the choice, you dont. If your
relationship is worth saving, then he will
stay with you and you two will just have
to use protection. But, I would give him
his time to collect his thoughts.
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 03-30-04 04:57am
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jago25_98
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Apr 2004 Posts: 18 Location: uk
Posted: 04-08-04 22:11pm
Herpes is "just" a cold sore. But then
again cold sores can be worse than you
might think. Read up:
It is a "cold sore" if it is oral.
Otherwise, it is a different type. And I
am sure that it is a lot more painful and
annoying in the private area. Anyway,
make sure you use protection. It is not
fair to pass it to someone else, and if
you do not have it, then I am sure that
you do not want it! Whether or not it is
"just" a cold sore.
