Can't Seem to Stay Hard Long Enough! Posted: 10-13-07 05:37am
I smoke, drink alot, but im not an
alcoholic. Im 20yrs old and me n my
girlfriend have bin 2geva for awhile now
and wel she wants sex obviously. and well,
im a virgin. i have no problm havn sex wit
her coz i fink shes fit as hell and i reli
do like her.
I get hard during forplay n dat but wen
it comes 2 actuli havin sex i dnt stay
hard for long, wel start n den il jus go
down. its either that or il cum too erli.
I want to please her n everything but i
duno wat 2do. is it dat im too nervous? do
i av an actuli problm? am i jus crap in
bed? is it all in my head?
Advice someone please!
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WShep
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Oct 2007 Posts: 67 Location: SoCal, USA
Posted: 10-13-07 13:30pm
Sounds like you are just a little nervous.
If you have performance anxiety, or are
trying too hard NOT to cum early, this
could be the cause. You are only twenty.
Dont drink that night, get some exercise
and go nuts. Cum as early as you want
(with oral/hand job or penetration with
condom). Then pleasure her some more
until you can get another erection and do
it again! I was worried at first that I
could not please a women. I learned to
use my tongue and my finger as well as
coming to the realization that with a 5
min break and some good foreplay, I can go
as many times in a row as I want. Sex
doesnt have to be a one off experience.
It can last for hours on end and at your
age, getting it up in five or ten minutes
after an orgasm shouldn't be a problem.
Once you are totally comfortable, its up
to them to get you going. Being honest
with them will help you have better sex
for the rest of your life.
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WShep
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Oct 2007 Posts: 67 Location: SoCal, USA
