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ad dawson

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Joined: 14 Oct 2007
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Miscarriage
Posted: 10-14-07 08:48am

hi there

I was 12 weeks pregnant had a miscarriage for a second time on monday dont know what went wrong. Everyone is telling me that I must stop crying and that I must be strong. but how can I it is very difficult not to cry. Must go to the doctor for a follow up on the 25th of this month to hear the test results. I just need some one to talk to.
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Mommy35

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Joined: 23 Sep 2006
Posts: 3165
Location: Vacationland, USA,

Posted: 10-14-07 18:06pm

I'm really sorry for your loss. If you need to cry that is what you need to do. Nobody should make you feel bad for letting out your emotions. It's better than holding them inside.

You will probably never know what went wrong, but just know that it happened for a reason and I'm sure it had nothing to do with you or anything you did. Maybe your doctor can refer you to someone who can help you deal with your mc.

One day you will be holding your beautiful son/daughter and I hope this happens soon for you. There are a lot of really supportive people around ehealth so stick around. Smile

Take care
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ad dawson

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Joined: 14 Oct 2007
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Posted: 10-16-07 04:07am

thank you very much it really helps to hear that, but at this moment I don't think that I'm ready to fall pregnant again. Not now I think I want to deal with both mc first before I fall pregnant again


Thanks again
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wantingajr

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Joined: 26 Feb 2007
Posts: 169
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Posted: 11-08-07 17:50pm

I am so sorry for ur loss. I went thru it 2 1/2 months ago and let me tell you that it does get a just little bit better if u occupy ur mind and time. There is days that are worse than others though. I hope that when ur ready to try again everything is better and soon u'll hold ur miracle in ur arms.
-gabby
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Brittnie

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Joined: 01 Dec 2007
Posts: 2
Miscarriage
Posted: 12-01-07 09:40am

Hello im srry for you... well i have a three yr old and just found out i was 7 weeks pregnant but yesterday and today after i use the bathroom there is like a Bownish discharge does anyone know what it could be I was kind of scared that i might be having a miscarriage
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NatB

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Joined: 26 Dec 2007
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Misscarriage
Posted: 12-26-07 11:01am

i had a complicated misscarriage 2 weeks ago with my second child, i was completly shocked and devestated because i had such a healthy baby before, and i am the same crying day and night and getting angry, i wonder if i will ever get over it, can i ask a question, do or did any of you find it difficult to look at another pregnant women? i do and i dont know why i feel so aweful not feeling happy for anybody else. is it so wrong that i am being so aweful?
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gingerelizabeth

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Joined: 03 Jan 2008
Posts: 79
Hey Hun
Posted: 01-04-08 23:30pm

i know just how you feel
i just lost a son at 6 months along
and its fine to be sad for awhile, but at some point you just need to snap out of it and try again.
you will have a healthy baby someday, but you gotta be strong for the child you will have
im here if you need to talk
goodluck<3
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