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J_GURL
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Its My Friend Again.....im Trying to Help Her
Posted: 10-14-07 13:41pm
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My friend has been having all the
pregnancy symptoms. But she is on depo
provera like me and she dosen't have a
period. I can say myself I think she is
pregnant. And everybody says you cant get
pregnant on depo but my other friend got
pregnant with twins on it. This stuff is
really scaring me. She is also darkskin
she cant tell if it is stretchmarks are
vains on her breast. But she said they
where not there before can some one please
give me some advice for her cause I dont
no what to tell her.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 10-14-07 13:44pm
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All we can say is that your "friend" needs
to take a test.
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J_GURL
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Posted: 10-14-07 13:53pm
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0k thanks but can you tell the diffrence
from veins and stretchmarks?
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 10-14-07 13:54pm
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Stretchmarks affect the skin. Veins are
underneath the skin. And stretchmarks are
not exclusive to pregnancy - they happen
anytime there's a dramatic growth.
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GrumpyBear2006
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Posted: 10-14-07 14:01pm
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My friend is also on the depo (whatever).
Lately she has been having symptoms. My
only advice to her was to take a test.
That's the only real way to find out. Bc
the symptoms for a pregnancy are not just
for pregnancy.
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J_GURL
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Posted: 10-14-07 14:12pm
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0h ok she said they are veins is there any
other explaintation fot these if they
wasnt there before. she said she is having
shapr pains on her sides and above her
belly button I hope she is ok. Im gone
tell her to take a test but she said she
is scared. But she had sex so she cant run
from it thats what I think.
am I right?
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 10-14-07 14:16pm
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She's always had veins. As to why they're
"showing up" now... who knows? Maybe she
lost some moisture in her skin and it's a
bit thinner than usual. Maybe she's lost a
bit of pigment. Maybe they've always been
there and she's just now "noticing"
because she thinks she might be pregnant
and is reading too much into every little
detail of her body.
If she's having pain above her belly
button, that's nothing to do with
pregnancy. Your uterus is inside your
lower abdomen, right above your vagina.
It's not near your belly button. A sharp
pain on ONE side could be worrying - it
could suggest an ectopic pregnancy, which
means her baby is growing in her tube
instead of in her uterus. But pain on BOTH
sides? Not to do with pregnancy.
I don't think she's pregnant. I think she
thinks she might be, and is freaking out.
Tell her to take a test and relax.
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Posted: 10-15-07 14:42pm
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i think your friend is really you hun
seriously
if it is then whatever we dont care
we arent going to judge you
i dont know why shes haveing sharp pains
above her belly button but like laura said
that has nothing to do with pregnancy
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Posted: 10-15-07 14:55pm
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0K MY FRIEND IS ME BUT I'VE READ S0ME 0F
THE POST YALL HAVE MADE AND YALL HAVENT
SAID AL0T 0F NICE STUFF.
S0 i HAVE BEEN HAViNG SHARP PAiNS 0N MY
SIDES AND STUFF BUT i WiLL N0T COME 0N
HERE AND ASK FOR ADVICE AGAIN IF I CANT
GET SOME RESPECTFUL ADVICE.
I DONT LIKE PEOPLE THAT JUDGE ME SORRY IF
I AM BEING RUDE OR OFFENSIVE.
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Posted: 10-15-07 15:09pm
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no one judged you, it was just obvious it
was you. Pain in your stomach is not a
sign of pregnancy unless you're in labour
and are having contractions. It could be
many things, apendicitis, period pains, an
ovarian cist or nothing at all
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Posted: 10-15-07 15:12pm
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Take a pregnancy test if you feel you are
pregnant. The symptoms you are talking
about are not exclusive to pregnancy and
can mean any numerous things.
If you are pregnant and these are truly
pregnancy symptoms, you would be far
enough along to get a pregnancy test to
show positive.
We've been giving you respectful advice.
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young Girl
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Posted: 10-15-07 15:14pm
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we dont judge people and we arent mean or
agressive to anyone unless they are rude
first
you were never rude so we wont be rude to
you!
i think you should take a test to see
whats wrong
are you late on your period?
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Ingi
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Posted: 10-15-07 15:15pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | we dont judge people and we
arent mean or agressive to anyone unless
they are rude first
you were never rude so we wont be rude to
you!
i think you should take a test to see
whats wrong
are you late on your
period? |
She is on depo, she doesn't have periods.
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Posted: 10-15-07 15:17pm
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My best friend got pregnant on depo
shot....
Tell her to take a test... couldn't hurt
anything.
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Posted: 10-15-07 15:26pm
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[quote="Ingi"]| the_girlfreind
wrote: | we dont judge people and we
arent mean or agressive to anyone unless
they are rude first
you were never rude so we wont be rude to
you!
i think you should take a test to see
whats wrong
are you late on your
period? |
She is on depo, she doesn't have
periods.[/quote
ohhh
i wouldnt worry too much if you are on
depo
your using birth control after all however
you are always at risk of pregnancy even
with protection
just take a test or go see a doctor they
can help you out and give you a blood test
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J_GURL
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Posted: 10-15-07 22:03pm
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You said your bestfriend got pregnant on
depo but i thought it was like 99.9%
effective and I know of plenty of people
that have got pregnant on depo. But how is
that? But sorry for the missunderstanding
I thought some one was trying to be rude.
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Posted: 10-16-07 07:14am
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I've heard of a lot of women getting
pregnant on the depo shot actually. It's
99.9% effective only when it's injected at
the same times (I'm not sure if they are
every 3 months or every month-I've never
been on depo) But for example, if you got
a shot on Jan 1st and were due again 3
months later, the doctor gave it to you
mid-March...that would make it less
effective. It's kind of like when you're
on the pills how you have to take them at
the same time every day or they are less
effective...
Why not just go buy a test? You will feel
a lot better knowing either way. I think
you can even buy them online if you are
nervous about going into a store (some
girls are).
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Posted: 10-16-07 09:39am
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| J_GURL
wrote: | | You said your bestfriend got
pregnant on depo but i thought it was like
99.9% effective and I know of plenty of
people that have got pregnant on depo. But
how is that? But sorry for the
missunderstanding I thought some one was
trying to be
rude. |
most birth controls are 99% effective but
also alot of women get pregnant on birth
control
the only way to guarentee you wont get
pregnant is to not have sex
anytime you have sex even while on birth
control theres a chance of pregnancy
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Posted: 10-16-07 10:19am
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The only time peoples posts may seem rude
or offensive is when people ask for advice
and answers and dont like what people have
to respond with and et defensive and a
fight breaks out.
You dont need to hide, a 'friend' is 90%
always the OP.
You can get pregnant on birthcontrol
although it is higly effective as a
controceptive it does happen. Same as
pills, IUD, or a condom!
Skinny or Heavy set girls pregnant or not,
stretchmarks can occur on a persons body
at anytime.
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