My late father's older brother (Uncle
Chas.) is a 78 year old widower with no
children. He is quite wealthy having
retired from a profitable law practice. He
lives alone but some months ago he
employed on a three-day-a-week basis, a 19
year old female university student as a
housekeeper. She needs the salary to
supplement her scholarship endowment. Last
week during one of my regular but
unannounced visits I found that she was
also supplying extra, lets say, bedroom
services to Uncle Chas.
After the inturruption we (three of us)
sat around, at Chas's request, and
discussed what was going on. He was not
paying her extra for his extras nor did
she require any. She was quite happy with
the arrangements as:- a) she did not have
time to devote to a relationship with her
peer group, b) she avoided "one night
stands" as being too risky.
c) she could satisfy her
sexuality as Chas (with the help of
Viagra) would stay erect long enough for
her to climax always once sometime twice.
e) as she had more stamina and was more
versatile she was the "active" partner.
d) she had no desires of forming a deep
relationship, it was just mutually
sexual.
Chas. said that he was enjoying very much
the attention of a young female and did
not feel that he was taking advantage of
her. She had introduced him
to modern sexuality ("doggy" style,
"Spanish" style also mutual oral) that he
had never experienced during his single
marriage.
He was dosing 100 mg. Valium three times a
week and claimed minimum side effects.
Obviously he is infatuated with this
attractive, well spoken, pleasant
personality, young Lady.My worries are:-
a) she will eventually escalate thier
relationship and become a "live-in"
companion.
b) she will eventually divest him of his
money.
c) if knowledge of this relationship
became public he would loose a coniderable
amount of respect he enjoys in the general
and in his former business community.
Any one have any CONSTRUCTIVE thoughts?
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Mikolas
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Posted: 10-15-07 16:38pm
I certainly hope you don't have a Gold
digger. I never actually read/knew of such
cases though I have heard bits and pieces.
Well from what I read, it seems that Chas,
is very much enjoying himself. How long
was he a widower by the way? He worked
very hard throughout his life and must
have been quite lonely being by himself
for quite a time? Shouldn't he have
something for himself? I'm not saying that
makes this justified, but simply that what
should matter most is that he is happy
(emotionally) till when his time comes.
Losing respect from the public... that is
up to him, if he doesn't care, neither
should you. He has retired and worked far
too long and hard to be put down by the
opinions of others. What is wrong with it
if she escalates their relationship and
get together, so long as she doesn't have
other motives? If somehow, which I'm sure
this has happened before, they care for
each other enough to break through the age
differences, congratulations to them? Let
them be happy, as mean as this may sound,
Chas has already exceeded the expected age
of death in men, you do not know when his
time will come.
As for if she is after his money... I
don't have anything to say. All you have
given me were seemingly positive points on
her and there is no chance I'd ever meet
her to find out what she is all about. So
I couldn't possibly judge her and declare
her a gold digger. Perhaps your family
should find opportunities to get to know
her (dinner conversations, etc) and see if
she is really some malicious money
succubus for yourself. Or find people who
know her, does her parents know about
this???
