I Have A Boyfriend And We Recently Had A
Nine Month Old Girl And Lately He Has Been
Saying That Sex Dosen't Feel The Same Even
Nine Months Later That Im More Loose! But
I Haven't Had Sex With Anyone Else And I
Had A C-Section And Recently Missed
Carried 2 MOnths Ago I Dont Know What 2
Tell Him When He's Accusing Me Of Cheating
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-15-07 12:08pm
Childbirth can affect the "tightness" of
your vagina. It is the ONLY thing that
can. Having sex will not make you looser,
it was definitely from giving birth if
he's noticing a difference.
If it is really impeding your sex life,
you can try doing kegals to strengthen the
muscles and squeeze him while he's in
there.
But tell him to get over it!! Childbirth
is hard on a woman's body.
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Rm080781
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Posted: 10-15-07 15:53pm
I agree with georgia. Tell him to get
over it. It is hard on your body to carry
that baby 9 months.
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Ingi
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Posted: 10-15-07 16:04pm
You had a c-section so you didn't have a
vaginal delivery... so you shouldn't be
any 'looser' than you were before.
Sounds like he needs to grow up and
remember that you are parents now and sex
does change as you get older. It gets
better
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-15-07 17:33pm
I missed the c-section part lol. Would her
pelvic bones still have loosened a little,
just from the pregnancy, though ingi?
But it's not from sex, that's for sure.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-15-07 19:49pm
I don't *think* pregnancy "loosens" the
bones of the pelvis
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nightangel73
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Posted: 10-15-07 21:17pm
One time asked if vaginal delivery would
make the woman looser down there and it
seemed like the majority said it goes back
to how it was before..Georgia so for you
did you got looser like that?
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-15-07 21:25pm
No no, I've never given birth!! I'm just going off
of what I've heard women say on here
mostly. I do know that the pelvic bones in
a woman do get wider when they've had
children- you can tell on a skeleton
usually if the women's given birth or not.
Right? I'm not crazy, I don't think... I
don't know if that's from the actual
birthing process or just being pregnant
though.
Hmm well regardless, the thing that will
MOST effect your "tightness" is how
lubricated you are and how turned
on/relaxed you are. If you are very turned
on and well lubricated, you might feel
looser, likewise if you are really dry or
nervous, you will feel tight (and it would
probably hurt!)
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JH2007
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Posted: 10-17-07 14:16pm
Totally agree with Georgia49. It's more
related to how lubricated you are. I had
two vaginal births with horrible tear (3
degree- all the way to the anal). I asked
my dh how he felt about my virgina. He
always said no difference.
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Rm080781
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Posted: 10-17-07 17:04pm
I had 2 c-sections myself (2 sets of
twins) but I have heard it goes back to
what it was before delivery. I know that
the pelvic bones loosen later in pregnancy
to accomodate a delivery but I think they
go back to what they were before.
