Shelly-Bell
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Spotting w/ sharp pain + I'm sexually active
Posted: 10-16-07 16:30pm
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Well it's been almost a week now. When the
spotting first happened. I thought, oh hey
I'm pregnant. But now I don't know.
I'm scared that something could be wrong,
because when I go to the wash room and I
wipe [this is normal] at first it was
light brown.
Another time it was starting to get red,
so I though it was my cycle finally
starting. But then it went back to being
brown spotting, then one day when I went
to the wash room, [I had put a pad on a
day or two after the spotting happened]
and the pad wasn't full but it was used.
It was brownish.
After that event, it went back to just
extremely light where you can only see it
when you wipe.
But when I went to the washroom today, my
new pad had a thumb spot [a little more
then the thumb (flat surface)] and it
looked black.
I've also once in a while gotten this
sharp pain, or sometimes just a small
pain. It last for almost half a minute or
so.
I'm just worried that somethings wrong,
but I don't know how to talk to my mom
about it. I told her about the pain, but I
don't know how to talk to her about the
other stuff. Cause she always said just
wait, or it's nothing.
-Side Note: I'm also sexually active.
Any suggestions would be helpful.
Thanks Shelly Belly
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Posted: 10-16-07 16:32pm
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If you haven't tested for pregnancy and
think you may be pregnant, take a test.
If pregnancy is not the issue, it may be a
weird cycle for you.
Take a pregnancy test.
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Shelly-Bell
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Posted: 10-16-07 16:38pm
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Thanks, but I don't know.
The shooting pain has changed my mind
about pregnancy.
I'm not quite sure.
Blah I'm confused.
Thanks.
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Posted: 10-16-07 16:40pm
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So you think you are... or you think you
aren't?
Is your period late?
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Shelly-Bell
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Posted: 10-16-07 16:48pm
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Well I'm not sure, and the_girlfreind.
It's hard for me to go to the doctor. I
have to consult with my mother first, and
it's difficult.
I'm going to get a test sometime this
week.
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Posted: 10-16-07 16:51pm
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| Shelly-Bell
wrote: | Well I'm not sure, and
the_girlfreind. It's hard for me to go to
the doctor. I have to consult with my
mother first, and it's difficult.
I'm going to get a test sometime this
week. |
you should go to the doctor
if you are haveing sex you need to be
tested for stds and get a pap smear
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Posted: 10-16-07 16:58pm
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Spotting itself is not a sign of
pregnancy. There could be a lot of reasons
that you are spotting.
Have you had unprotected sex? (not just
sex, but unprotected)
Is there a reason to think you are
pregnant aside from the spotting?
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Shelly-Bell
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Posted: 10-16-07 17:03pm
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Yes I have had unprotected sex.
I've felt nauseated, bloated, tired, and
my breast feel fuller.
I know they could also be signs that
you're sick.
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Posted: 10-16-07 17:08pm
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| Shelly-Bell
wrote: | Yes I have had unprotected
sex.
I've felt nauseated, bloated, tired, and
my breast feel fuller.
I know they could also be signs that
you're sick. |
yeah it could be lots of things
if you dont want to be pregnant then get
on birth control and stop haveing
unproteced sex
like i said you SERIOUSLY need to go to
the OBGYN for yearly pap smears and to get
tested for stds
because you could have an std
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Shelly-Bell
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deathmuncher
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Hey I Would Like to Know Thx Asap
Posted: 10-16-07 17:17pm
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..... me and my girlfriend had sex a few
days a go and know she is having stumach
problems ....and we had safe sex .... and
i was wondering can she get pregnant and
it was the first time ... i am just
wondering if she would ....
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Posted: 10-16-07 17:18pm
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She couldn't be having any pregnancy
symptoms within a few days. The soonest
she'd have symptoms would be when she
missed her period.
Good for using protection!
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Re: Hey I Would Like to Know Thx Asap
Posted: 10-16-07 17:20pm
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| deathmuncher
wrote: | | ..... me and my girlfriend
had sex a few days a go and know she is
having stumach problems ....and we had
safe sex .... and i was wondering can she
get pregnant and it was the first time ...
i am just wondering if she would
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nos he is not feeling pregnancy symtptoms
is takes about 4 weeks for them to show
up
STAY CALM
shes NOT pregnant
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Posted: 10-16-07 17:21pm
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| Shelly-Bell
wrote: | | Thanks for the
help. |
good luck hun and let us know how it goes!
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Shelly-Bell
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Re: Hey I Would Like to Know Thx Asap
Posted: 10-16-07 17:21pm
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| deathmuncher
wrote: | | ..... me and my girlfriend
had sex a few days a go and know she is
having stumach problems ....and we had
safe sex .... and i was wondering can she
get pregnant and it was the first time ...
i am just wondering if she would
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IT is possible. But when I first had sex I
had stomache problems too and I was sick.
I'd say its normal. If you're worried, I
would say go see a doctor.
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Shelly-Bell
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Posted: 10-16-07 17:21pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | Shelly-Bell
wrote: | | Thanks for the
help. |
good luck hun and let us know how it goes!
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Thanks I will =)
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deathmuncher
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Re: Hey I Would Like to Know Thx Asap
Posted: 10-16-07 17:26pm
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| Shelly-Bell
wrote: | | deathmuncher
wrote: | | ..... me and my girlfriend
had sex a few days a go and know she is
having stumach problems ....and we had
safe sex .... and i was wondering can she
get pregnant and it was the first time ...
i am just wondering if she would
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IT is possible. But when I first had sex I
had stomache problems too and I was sick.
I'd say its normal. If you're worried, I
would say go see a
doctor. |
well i am not worried ... it's just i
don't want her to get kicked out of her
house or for me to ...but thx anyways ....
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Re: Hey I Would Like to Know Thx Asap
Posted: 10-16-07 17:28pm
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| deathmuncher
wrote: | | Shelly-Bell
wrote: | | deathmuncher
wrote: | | ..... me and my girlfriend
had sex a few days a go and know she is
having stumach problems ....and we had
safe sex .... and i was wondering can she
get pregnant and it was the first time ...
i am just wondering if she would
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IT is possible. But when I first had sex I
had stomache problems too and I was sick.
I'd say its normal. If you're worried, I
would say go see a
doctor. |
well i am not worried ... it's just i
don't want her to get kicked out of her
house or for me to ...but thx anyways
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whats shes feeling is not from pregnancy
ok? its wayy to soon
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deathmuncher
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Re: Hey I Would Like to Know Thx Asap
Posted: 10-16-07 17:33pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | deathmuncher
wrote: | | Shelly-Bell
wrote: | | deathmuncher
wrote: | | ..... me and my girlfriend
had sex a few days a go and know she is
having stumach problems ....and we had
safe sex .... and i was wondering can she
get pregnant and it was the first time ...
i am just wondering if she would
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IT is possible. But when I first had sex I
had stomache problems too and I was sick.
I'd say its normal. If you're worried, I
would say go see a
doctor. |
well i am not worried ... it's just i
don't want her to get kicked out of her
house or for me to ...but thx anyways
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whats shes feeling is not from pregnancy
ok? its wayy to
soon |
Thx... iknow that it is not from pregnancy
beacuse it is to early just i wanted to
know because i really care about this girl
...and stuff but yeah ....o and the condom
did not break aswell
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