Help From An Experienced Woman Maybe? Posted: 10-18-07 14:24pm
I have a problem. my boobs are way too big
for my size, and please understand i truly
want some advice. I'm around 5 '6' and i
wear a 32D, and can wear a 32DD. Ive tried
the whole "lose weight thing" by eating
less desert but i only weigh 115, so it
doesnt help. does any one have any advice
on how i can not attract as much
attention? Being just 15, i really want
guys to like me for my personality. I went
through years were i would only wear
sports bras but they act more like push up
bras. its embarasing especially since
mmost of my best friends are near flat.
I also LOVE sports but its really painful
around the time of my period even with a
sports bra, once again any advice? My mom
jut doesnt understandd.
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Ingi
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Posted: 10-18-07 14:29pm
Poor thing, you got those boobs at age 13?
That is terrible. The best you can do is
wear a tight sports bra. Or wrap
them with something like an ace bandage
real tight.
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Rosie H
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Posted: 10-18-07 14:33pm
wear two sports bras if you have too and
the ace bandage is a good idea. But I
know your pain I am a 36DD and have always
been bigger than all my friends. I had c
cups at 13! But you have a very healthy
weight and if you lose anymore you would
be too skinny. So there isnt much else
you can do besides having a breast
reduction. Sorry I couldnt help more.
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Lindsabell
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Posted: 10-18-07 14:35pm
I was completely flat at thriteen
actually. It was around eighth grade. Im
almost 16 now.
and thanks. ill try it. the problem really
is that they are so high, i have clevage
out of everything. its just embarrasing. i
get hit on all the time on vacations by
older men but at the same time im not
willing to wear a one piece.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-18-07 16:26pm
Don't try lose weight, it doesn't sound
like you could loose too much more and
stay healthy.
I understand that it's hard at your age to
deal with it, but I promise you will like
it later on!!
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Rm080781
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Posted: 10-19-07 09:35am
Try the sports bra or wrapping your chest,
maybe even finding higher cut things? or
a bra with a minimizer? Later on if you
dont like you can always get it reduced
even though you will probably like it when
you get older I had a bigger
chest than my friends when I started to
develop, so I understand your feelings.
Dont try to lose any more weight, it
sounds like your at a very healthy weight.
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young Girl
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Posted: 10-19-07 09:39am
Lindsabell
wrote:
I was completely flat at
thriteen actually. It was around eighth
grade. Im almost 16 now.
and thanks. ill try it. the problem really
is that they are so high, i have clevage
out of everything. its just embarrasing. i
get hit on all the time on vacations by
older men but at the same time im not
willing to wear a one
piece.
you can give some to me!!!!
just kidding
hun you should be happy with who you are
i know the negative attention can be
frusterateing and a pain in the butt
so next time someone hits on you just be
like "heck yes! i hope you odnt mind my
genital warts? oh and ive got three
nipples."
i promise they will leave you alone
thats what i do ive gotta
deal with attention lik that all the time
im 16 too
it sucks because these pervs can be really
annoying
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Posted: 10-19-07 10:46am
i'm big up top, too. 34F to be precise!
you are very big for your age but everyone
grows at different rates. i reckon you are
just an early bloomer! the rest of your
peer group will catch up with you in years
to come! be proud of your body, dont
resent it!
my breasts hurt during sports and things
too, i've found the best sports bra is by
a brand called 'shock absorber'. you
should try it out. it stops the boinging
even if you think you know what size you
are it is always worth getting measured
anyway, because in fact most women wear
the wrong size bra. here is a good guide
if you want: http://www.bravissimo.
com/info/3Step.aspx
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JH2007
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Posted: 10-21-07 15:02pm
Oh, I feel you. Mine was definitely not
as large as yours but it's larger than all
the girls around me when I was 15-16 yo.
I tried to hide it by hunch my back and
formed a bad posture I am not able to get
rid. I hope you don't do that. I told my
daughter not to do that and be proud of
her breasts. Like the other person said.
It's not a bad thing once you are older.
My husband confessed he fell for me
largely due to my chest. Too bad now
days, my breasts are only 1/3 of the
original size because I lost 20 lbs and in
my 40s.
I had a bigger
chest than my friends when I started to
develop, so I understand your feelings.
Dont try to lose any more weight, it
sounds like your at a very healthy weight.
ive gotta
deal with attention lik that all the time
