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mallory123
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Am I a Virgin?
Posted: 10-19-07 18:34pm
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one night I was with my boyfriend and we
were messing around drunk. i told him I
wanted to have sex with him in general.
but i i kept saying no when he tried to
"put it in" i was being flirty again and
we were messing around so i think he
thought it was okay and he sorta of poked
in me. i immediatly freaked out, because I
didnt want to and he immediatly stopped.
It was one poke just a little in, i
couldnt really feel it (maybe the
alcohol?) and i definitity didnt want to,
but I dont think he knew that? My
virginity is REALLY important to me,
because i think sex is a huge deal, and
though I wouldnt classify that as sex, i
want to know am i a virgin? did that
count.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 10-19-07 21:10pm
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If his penis was inside your vagina, you
are not a virgin. If his penis did not go
inside your vagina, you are still a
virgin.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-19-07 22:42pm
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No, in my opinion it didn't count. To
loose your virginity you need to have
real, full penis-in-vagina consentual sex.
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blondie_e
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Posted: 10-20-07 11:08am
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i think ur a virgin i think to lose
virginity it has to go full way in
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beautifullydecayed
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I'm Kinda Lost
Posted: 10-26-07 09:54am
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well......................it's kinda hard
to help.you don't know if it was the
liqour that made you not feel anything but
it could have went further than you think.
personally i think u still are but only
you know!
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sexxybexxy
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Posted: 10-31-07 04:29am
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i think that you are still a virgin as to
lose your virginity would mean that he
went all the way in.
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 10-31-07 23:22pm
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Virginity means more than just that part
of it anyway. You are ABSOLUTELY A
VIRGIN.
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Pink27
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Posted: 11-02-07 22:24pm
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Unless you consciously chose to have sex
and lose your virginity, then in my
opinion, yes you are still a virgin.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-02-07 22:27pm
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you are what you want to be
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ncohen87
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Posted: 11-04-07 19:26pm
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I think you are still a virgin. If he
didn't go all the way in...and you didn't
feel him "pop your cherry" then you've got
nothing to worry about! We all slip up
sometimes...you got lucky enough to not
slip up all the way!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-04-07 19:36pm
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^^--- Misinformation Alert! --^^
There is no "cherry" to pop.
What sometimes breaks during a
girl's first sexual encounter is the
hymen. This is located at the very outside
of the vaginal entrance, NOT deep inside.
The hymen is often broken by the girl
during physical activities such as biking,
karate, inserting tampons, horse-back
riding, and masturbation.
Most women do not bleed during their first
time. Aka, no "cherry" is "popped". That
phrase refers to the hymen breaking and
bleeding.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-04-07 19:38pm
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| ncohen87
wrote: | | I think you are still a
virgin. If he didn't go all the way
in...and you didn't feel him "pop your
cherry" then you've got nothing to worry
about! We all slip up sometimes...you got
lucky enough to not slip up all the
way! |
lol what? i had many partners before my
"cherry was popped?"
that doesnt have anything to do with being
a virgin or not
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ncohen87
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Posted: 11-04-07 19:45pm
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If you would have read the post I had on
the last one that you tried to "confront"
me on, you would have noticed that I said
every woman was different. Now, realize
that it is an opinion, and there are two
different ways people view having lost
their virginity:
1. If there was full vaginal penetration
from a man's penis.
2. If the hymen was broken by a man's
penetration.
For me, when I had full vaginal
intercourse for the first time, my hymen
broke and I felt it...therefore, when I
replied I was giving her an opinion from
my own personal expereience. I did bleed
after the fact, and my gyn told me that
this was natural, and it happens to many
women.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-04-07 19:46pm
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| ncohen87
wrote: | If you would have read the
post I had on the last one that you tried
to "confront" me on, you would have
noticed that I said every woman was
different. Now, realize that it is an
opinion, and there are two different ways
people view having lost their virginity:
1. If there was full vaginal penetration
from a man's penis.
2. If the hymen was broken by a man's
penetration.
For me, when I had full vaginal
intercourse for the first time, my hymen
broke and I felt it...therefore, when I
replied I was giving her an opinion from
my own personal expereience. I did bleed
after the fact, and my gyn told me that
this was natural, and it happens to many
women. |
there are many ways people view ways to
loose your virginity
theres not only 2 and theres not ne set in
stone
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-04-07 19:47pm
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I had no hymen to break. I guess I wasn't
a virgin at birth.
Including the hymen in a definition of
virginity is archaic, sexist, and quite
useless.
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ncohen87
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Posted: 11-04-07 19:50pm
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Once again people, I said it was an
opinion... get over it!
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-04-07 19:54pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | I had no hymen to break. I
guess I wasn't a virgin at birth.
Including the hymen in a definition of
virginity is archaic, sexist, and quite
useless. |
agreed
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-04-07 19:55pm
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| ncohen87
wrote: | | Once again people, I said it
was an opinion... get over
it! |
No.
Your "opinion" holds back women. I can't
allow that. Believing a hymen is proof of
purity, and SPREADING this archaic
"branding" is inexcusable on my watch.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-04-07 19:58pm
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| ncohen87
wrote: | | Once again people, I said it
was an opinion... get over
it! |
it wasnt an opinion it was false
information
period
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ncohen87
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Posted: 11-04-07 20:07pm
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Women limit women by saying, "no, you
can't believe in this, that or the other
thing" (archaic). What you are doing is
disrespecting women's opinions in the
past, and women's opinons now. So since my
opinion is inexcusable on your watch
allows you to speak for women? Who
dictated you to become the voice of women.
You have no right to limit a woman's
opinion, and if this is what I believe
than be a strong enough individual to
disagree with it and move on. All women
are different, and I'd rather take an
arachic opinion over degrading another
woman's opinion without just cause.
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