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pertinax_lupus
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Is This Sexual Fetish Normal? Do I Need Help?
Posted: 10-20-07 02:58am
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I absolutely am so turned on by the
thought of my wife dressed up like the
girl from alice in wonderland. I have
loved the book and movie for years, so
there is a history there, but i can't
explain why it is so sexy to me. I has to
be the exact cut and colour. I am worried
about this because I have no idea WHY it
has to be the same colour etc. as hers,
and her character is only supposed to be
what, nine? I want to induldge in ths
fetish I have but I am scared to look into
it. Should I seek help? I feel like I'm
sexualizing something about the girl or a
little girls dress and I feel sick. This
kink of mine is eating me from the inside.
Is this normal or do I need therapy?
Cil
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HealthySex
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Posted: 10-20-07 17:14pm
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Is your wife nine? Probably not, so what's
wrong about wanting your wife to dress up
like Alice. If you google Alice in
Wonderland costume you will get Halloween
costumes for older women. With one twist
however, the costume is dolled up to be
even sexier. Soooo, it sounds like a lot
of men like it. I'm looking at one now and
I think it's very sexy. You shouldn't be
afraid of or feel bad about your fetishes.
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marvel
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Posted: 10-22-07 06:59am
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as long as you don't fantasize about a
nine year old while you're imagining your
wife dressed up as an alice in wonderland
character, you should be fine. Fetishes
are supposed to be fun!
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-22-07 10:30am
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Very similar to the "school girl" fetish.
As long as you're not actually having sex
with young girls, I don't see why it would
be a problem. Why do you think britney
spears dressed up like a school girl??
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MikeH90
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Posted: 10-22-07 11:15am
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| Georgia59
wrote: | | Very similar to the "school
girl" fetish. As long as you're not
actually having sex with young girls, I
don't see why it would be a problem. Why
do you think britney spears dressed up
like a school
girl?? |
cause she's a prostitute?
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KornJL33
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Posted: 10-23-07 21:04pm
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bro i had that same fetish with "alice"
when i was a lil kid. go for it man!
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pertinax_lupus
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Posted: 10-31-07 16:54pm
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I still can't shake that it's not right. I
mean the sexed up lingerie versions of the
dress really do nothing for me. It has to
be that specific one, the colour,
petticoats, etc. I don't even understand
the school girl fetish to begin with. Why
is that attractive? Don't people feel bad
about it?
Cil
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-01-07 00:02am
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No... it's just what people are attracted
to. Sometimes you can't explain it.
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pertinax_lupus
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Posted: 11-04-07 22:12pm
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Well can anyone tell me, if they like the
schoolgirl thing or similar, why they like
it? I can't accept that no on knows why
and just goes along with it.... Doesn't
anyone wonder?
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Mikolas
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Posted: 11-05-07 00:14am
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Do not question, your penis has a mind of
its own. Like everybody said, as long as
its not the 9 year olds you are looking at
and wanting to do something with, its
fine. It's the clothes that appeal to you
right, I don't know, school girl outfits
just turn me on, I don't bother analyzing
why. Doesn't mean I like to go for 16 year
olds (which is now illegal for me -_-).
Alice was hot back in the day, I was
jealous of the white rabbit. haha
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Georgia59
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Posted: 11-05-07 10:47am
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I'll take a stab at it... something to do
with innocence gone wrong (in a good way).
Like the good catholic school girl- that's
hot because she's innocent and in a way
unattainable, and you have a need to spoil
her...
Just a guess. But I like the above advice,
don't question your penis! 
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thelmas4sale
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Posted: 11-11-07 18:45pm
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lol i have a fetish for guys in tights
thats weird right?
....halloween night my boyfriend dressed
up as peter pan...and i was all over him!!
i couldn't believe how turned on i was
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Georgia59
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Posted: 11-11-07 20:42pm
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There's nothing wrong with that- I love a
guy in some tight leather pants... yum
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sageman
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Posted: 11-11-07 21:57pm
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You're worried about your fetish? Wait
till I give you my long list. The problem
is the same routine gets a little boring
and tempts you to look elsewhere. For as
long as your partner approves of your
fetish and so long as it does not drive
you to engage in any illegal act, I don't
see a problem.
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fiona05
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Posted: 11-12-07 11:33am
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you and your wife married because you are
in love, so i find it unlikely that she
would judge you for this! maybe she'll
find it funny at first, or be taken aback,
but ultimately i'm sure she'll feel
honoured that you were open enough to
share it with her. this is something you
can both have fun with!! and you never
know, maybe she has fetishes that she has
never told you before and she will be
inspired to share them with you too.
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