can some one help me my dad has recently
split from my mum an my dad has found some
one who is loads younger then him my dad
is 42 an she is 27 an i am 16 an i am
happy that he has found some one but me an
his girl friend have become close together
an recently when drunk together we kissed
and i told her we cant carry on but i love
her an i think she loves me but when i ask
her if she does she always says you know
but i want to tell my dad because i feel
so guilty of kissing her back
PLEASE CAN SOMEONE HELP ME
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Mikolas
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Joined: 02 Aug 2007 Posts: 597 Location: Buffalo University, Hands off! My trained killer kitten has its aim set upon you!
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Posted: 10-21-07 22:45pm
Uuh man, you really got yourself into one
messed up triangle. He is your father man,
without him, you wouldn't be where you are
now. Do you think it is ok to be playing
with your father's girlfriend like that?
Consider the consequences if your dad were
to find out. How much that might hurt
him... betrayal from his own son. You are
16, regardless of what you or I or anybody
say, you've yet to really comprehend love.
I felt the same way too at that age, that
I'm highly mature and I could comprehend
such a thing, but we've so much more to
learn as the years go by, we only base the
greatness of our emotions from what we
know. You have TONS more time to find the
girl of your dreams. Let me tell you this,
I highly doubt you are going to become
serious with her, the age gap is quite
different, and when you go off to college
and meet girls your age, while she is 30,
your relationship with her will probably
not work out. Why ruin your relationship,
a blood relationship with your father for
something that has a low chance of
succeeding. Just consider some time from
now, when you broke up with her because
who knows what (since there are tons of
variables that could break you two apart),
and you also have a rift with your father,
you will have gained nothing, only lost.
By the way, if you can clear your head up
and decide to stick with your dad, I would
probably tell him. If she continues
showing signs of interest in you while
being with your dad, I don't think she
deserves anybody at all.
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dandamen
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2007 Posts: 44 Location: , Dorset
Thanks Posted: 10-22-07 09:47am
ok m8 thanks for that you are right about
meeting girls an i have met a girl an
recently slept with her moving fine but
when i have see my dads girl friend tho i
feel warm again but i want to get rid of
it cause the girl i met is the right girl
for me
TAHNKS M8
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Mikolas
Moderator
Joined: 02 Aug 2007 Posts: 597 Location: Buffalo University, Hands off! My trained killer kitten has its aim set upon you!
Thanks: 17
Thanked:1
Posted: 10-22-07 10:04am
I'm guessing you are British? My british
gaming friends always say m8. Well best of
luck to you.
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dandamen
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2007 Posts: 44 Location: , Dorset
Posted: 10-22-07 10:20am
yer im british an thanks for your advice
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KornJL33
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2007 Posts: 43
Posted: 10-23-07 20:56pm
bro, thats like a fantasy come true lol.
that must be pretty hot... ur dad would
probably kill u tho. keep it a secret! lol
jp. ya u probably shouldnt continue with
that relationship, but maybe u could get
ur dick sucked or something to remember
her by? lol jp again, sorry, u probably
shouldnt listen to me..
