Worried If My Girlfriend Is Pregnant.... Posted: 10-21-07 23:13pm
Ok so me and me girlfriend has been dating
quite awhile now...and we had sex once
without a condom exactly 2 weeks ago...i
pulled out and everything...but she
started her period 3 days ago...and out of
nowhere she stopped...she has been feelin
nautious and throwin up and havin extremly
bad stomache aches..shes been rly tired
and cant sleep...and she wont eat
anything....I'm just worried if shes
pregnant...ive read u can't find out if
sum1 is pregnant untill atleast 3 weeks
into it...and ive also heard she cant be
pregnant if she started her period no
matter how long it lasted...and her mom
thinks she is cuz he stomache has been
kinduv stiff...
i just needed an answer and want to kno if
the details i have is true?
if you guys dont mind to help me out..it's
very apprciated
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-21-07 23:18pm
Pulling out means nothing; pre-cum has
semen in it so you literally had
unprotected sex.
A 3 day period is normal for some women.
Is this unusual for her? She cannot be
getting pregnancy symptoms only 2 weeks
it. It's physically impossible.
Tiredness and nausea? Sounds like the flu
to me. She needs to go to a doctor.
You are right that you couldn't really
test right now. It might be
accurate, but I'd personally wait until 3
weeks to be sure. In the meantime, go to a
doctor so she can find out if she does
indeed have the flu.
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Vince2933
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Posted: 10-21-07 23:29pm
I understand about the pulling out part. I
tried to explain that to her...
and she told me that her periods normally
last 5-7 days. and shes never had a 3 day
one before... but if its physically
impossiable, whats up with the stoppin of
the period out nowhere?
and yah she told me like 2 days ago shes
been really stressed here latley...and she
started throwin up the night she stopped
her period..but she has been throwin up
worse since she heard that, skippin of the
period and throwin up could be symptoms of
pregnancy..so i think she could be
worrying her self sick..literally. She
does have a tempature cuz i spent alot of
the day with her today, and she kept
complaining of stomache pains and throwing
up... she hasnt been sleeping any nor
eating.
But what's up with the stomache aches???
she said she had them be4 when she was
pregnant once be4 untill she had a
miscarrage.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-22-07 09:21am
Vince2933
wrote:
I understand about the
pulling out part. I tried to explain that
to her...
and she told me that her periods normally
last 5-7 days. and shes never had a 3 day
one before... but if its physically
impossiable, whats up with the stoppin of
the period out
nowhere?
Periods do that sometimes. Humans aren't
machines, things aren't always like
clockwork.
I said it's physically impossible for her
to be having symptoms, NOT that it's
impossible for her to be pregnant. It is
VERY possible for her to be pregnant. You
said you had sex 2 weeks before her
period? That's right during when her most
fertile days should be.
Quote:
and yah she told
me like 2 days ago shes been really
stressed here latley...and she started
throwin up the night she stopped her
period..but she has been throwin up worse
since she heard that, skippin of the
period and throwin up could be symptoms of
pregnancy..
Again, no way this soon. I think she has a
very bad flu and needs medical attention
right away :/ On TOP of the good
possibility of being pregnant. These
things need to be dealt with! Your
girlfriend clearly isn't taking
responsibility for her health so YOU need
to.
Quote:
so i think she
could be worrying her self
sick..literally. She does have a tempature
cuz i spent alot of the day with her
today, and she kept complaining of
stomache pains and throwing up... she
hasnt been sleeping any nor
eating.
She has the god damned flu
then!!! She NEEDS to go to a doctor NOW.
Right now. The moment you read this
message. Bundle her up and GO.
Quote:
But what's up
with the stomache aches??? she said she
had them be4 when she was pregnant once
be4 untill she had a
miscarrage.
Stomach aches are a FLU symptom. I'm not
saying she isn't pregnant because she very
well could be. But I heavily know that she
is extremely sick right now and she needs
you to be the man and take her to the
hospital! You can get a pregnancy test
done then and there. If she IS pregnant
then you're going to have to make a couple
of decisions regarding treatment of her
illness and of her pregnancy. You cannot
hold this off.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-22-07 10:16am
Agreed. There is a chance she is pregnant,
and you'll need to start protecting
yourself better. Birth control is not just
the girl's responsibility!! Use condoms,
get on the pill, whatever. Remember, it's
your baby too if she gets pregnant, and
you need to be responsible to prevent that
if it's not what you want. Refuse to have
sex with her unless you are protected in
some way.
But her current symptoms sound more like
she's sick, and she needs to see a doctor.
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Vince2933
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Posted: 10-22-07 14:36pm
Ok well good news, but bad news...
i took my g/f to the doctor today and she
has strep throat REALLLLY bad... so
hopefully thats all the signs thats been
makin her feel rly bad, and stuff. sooo
theres step 1 down. Thanx for all the help
guys, i'll give u some more updates and
see what u guys think...
I appriciate everything and thanx for
encouraging me to take her to the dr.!
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-22-07 16:25pm
Good! I'm glad she'll get some medicine.
Good for you for taking care of her.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-22-07 19:15pm
Oh good, strep throat is a bacterial
infection so she can actually cure it with
antibiotics. You need to make sure she
takes every single pill she's prescribed,
even if she feels fine. Strep is very
resistant and if she stops the medicine
the infection will come back worse. It can
also develop into scarlet fever if she
ignores it.
Now you need to get her a pregnancy test.
Buy one with a digital screen so that
there is no question.
