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victoria Bartlett
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Heart Broken
Posted: 10-24-07 12:30pm
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New to this! My boyfriend Just left me
after three years for a girl 20 yrs. old.
We went on a vaction to Canada to meet his
father and his family. when we returned
the next day he said that he was going for
a bike ride (something that he always did
to keep in shape). Five hours later the
neighbor told me that he had seen him with
another girl. I did so much for this guy
why couldn't he be honest? For the next
two weeks he stayed living in the house
with me and even had sex. He now lives
with her two blocks away., we all also
work together, I am there boss. I have to
see them everyday this is killing me. He
comes to my house a few times a week and
we have sex. The problem is my friend
could't stand seeing me so out of sorts
that she went and blew the whistle on him
to his new girl. Of course he lied. But
dumb girl believes his lies. I have to
move on from all this drama but just can't
figure out how.
Thanks for listening 
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young Girl
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Posted: 10-24-07 12:33pm
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first off stop haveing sex with him!
he only gets the impression that he can
step all over you this way
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Ingi
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Posted: 10-24-07 12:33pm
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First things first, you need to stop
letting him come back for sex. That road
is going to get you nowhere.
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victoria Bartlett
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Heart Broken
Posted: 10-24-07 12:36pm
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He claims that he still loves me and is
unhappy. I think he want his cake and eat
it to.
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meblonde01
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Re: Heart Broken
Posted: 10-24-07 12:39pm
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| victoria Bartlett
wrote: | | He claims that he still
loves me and is unhappy. I think he want
his cake and eat it
to. |
Yep and you are giving it to him.. He
knows if it doesn't work out with the
othere girl he can come back to you.. You
make him decide..
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young Girl
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Posted: 10-24-07 12:40pm
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seriously will you ever take him back
after he did this to you? i guarentee hes
saying the SAME THING TO HER and screwing
her too
stop it
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victoria Bartlett
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Posted: 10-24-07 12:44pm
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To be honest I'm not really sure. I have
never had so much love for anyone like
this before. How do you pretend to be
happy when I have to look at him everyday.
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Ingi
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Posted: 10-24-07 12:52pm
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Or, you could let him continue to live
with the other girl while hiding his
relationship with you. That sounds like
more misery to me.
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barbee52
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Posted: 10-24-07 13:01pm
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If you're his boss, then fire his ass.
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Ingi
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Posted: 10-24-07 13:02pm
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| barbee52
wrote: | | If you're his boss, then
fire his ass. |
She can't fire him for leaving her. That
is illegal.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-24-07 13:05pm
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Nope don't do that, you'll get into
trouble.
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meblonde01
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Posted: 10-24-07 13:09pm
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Tell the other girl he is still sleeping
with you! I would!! Or have someone call
her so you don't get into trouble at
work..
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Ingi
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Posted: 10-24-07 13:13pm
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| meblonde01
wrote: | | Tell the other girl he is
still sleeping with you! I would!! Or have
someone call her so you don't get into
trouble at
work.. |
It appears someone already told the girl,
but he lied to her and said he wasn't.
To the OP, either you accept his behavior
or you don't. You accept it by allowing
this to continue. Or you don't accept it
by telling him to screw off.
Either way, it is going to be painful. You
just have to choose what you are
willing to deal with.
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meblonde01
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Posted: 10-24-07 13:29pm
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| barbee52
wrote: | | If you're his boss, then
fire his ass. |
I bet she wishes she could!!
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Posted: 10-24-07 13:53pm
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| meblonde01
wrote: | | barbee52
wrote: | | If you're his boss, then
fire his ass. |
I bet she wishes she
could!! |
Sexual harassment? 
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meblonde01
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Posted: 10-24-07 13:54pm
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| Birch
wrote: | | meblonde01
wrote: | | barbee52
wrote: | | If you're his boss, then
fire his ass. |
I bet she wishes she
could!! |
Sexual harassment? |
I know..
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young Girl
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Posted: 10-24-07 14:24pm
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| Birch
wrote: | | meblonde01
wrote: | | barbee52
wrote: | | If you're his boss, then
fire his ass. |
I bet she wishes she
could!! |
Sexual harassment? |
lol
birch your evil
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-24-07 18:55pm
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| victoria Bartlett
wrote: | | To be honest I'm not really
sure. I have never had so much love for
anyone like this before. How do you
pretend to be happy when I have to look at
him everyday. |
You don't. Who says you have to be happy
about his cheating butt and the new slab
of meat he's found? You don't! You do have
to dump his arse 100% though. You're not a
slot machine for his penis whenever he's
bored. Lock your door to him and let your
heart heal. Every time you sleep with him
you're just opening the wound.
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