How can I express passion during sex? Posted: 10-25-07 04:35am
i am a low key person... very layed back.
my bf and i were talking the other day and
somehow we started talking about his ex
and stupid little me had to ask some
questions about their sex life... he says
she had sooooo much passion and it made
him feel needed. i feel passion but i dont
know how to express it... i want him to
feel needed because i love
him...(sometimes he has a hard time
staying hard during sex and told his mom
that he thinks this is why... ) does
anyone have any ideas or tips to make him
feel more needed and/or to help me express
my passion...? i want him too be happy
with our realationship...
anything is helpful thanks,
sallie
sorry guys i know i have already posted
this in the womens chat but i was
wondering if there were some guys who
could help...
thank you for posting this here, I wanted
to reply to the one in womens chat but I
didn't want to get chewed out or
anything.
First I would keep asking questions, get
to know what his ex did so you can get a
real grasp on it.
Making a person feel needed is not a hard
task. When you have a problem, go to him
first...talk things out and let him know
how much him being there means to you. Be
the initiator of things, even things he
normally does.
As for lovemaking, whisper things in his
ear. Tell him how much you love him, that
he completes you, that he is
amazing...etc. Try to change the routine
around, try new things during foreplay.
Give him a nice massage then start kissing
down his back and all over, and if he
shows that he enjoys it, don't let him
roll over and take you...keep him there
and show him that you enjoy brining him
pleasure. Also when making love, try to be
more verbal. I think that's a big turn on
for both genders.
