I had been in a serious relationship for
about 2 years, and she ended it like 2
weeks ago...When I was with her I never
had a problem getting an erection,
sustaining it, and having sex. But now,
nothing seems to help...The thought of sex
disgusts me and I can't picture myself
even with a really hot girl or
anything...Why is this happening? I don't
want to be like this...
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-08-03 15:54pm
Its nothing really to worry about now, in
time im sure you will get over it. You
have just been so used to only being with
that one girl that its hard to even
picture yourself with someone different.
Your only 17 so you have alot of time to
see and do other things to get you up and
keep you up. (sorry if kinda gross) but
you will have other girls that will help
you with that problem im sure. Youre not
doomed or anything. So just give it time.
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Hellbound
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Sep 2003 Posts: 2
Posted: 09-09-03 00:42am
I guess you're right. She was my first,
and I was completely faithful to her and
i'm used to just her. It's just so weird
to think of me having sex with other
girls, or touching them...It's so nasty to
think of it! I don't want to! And no i'm
not turning gay...The thought of men
disgusts me far more.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-09-03 11:32am
Well yeah it was two years, but give it
some time and the disgust will go away.
It doesnt mean your gay, you are just more
of a one person only kinda guy. Im sure
with school or a job your going to find
someone who can be even better than your
first girl. I was like that a long time
ago because I was only with one boyfriend
and then I got sick of him (he wasnt very
nice) and about 3 months later I met my
future husband and I was totally not
interested in sleeping with him because I
was used to one guy before, but given time
everything turned out perfect. I have him
him and dont want anybody else. Well my
point is, give yourself time to get over
her and your options will soon be open for
better.
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