Stuck In a Self Distructive Cycle - Bad Moods Keep Me Alone Posted: 10-27-07 12:03pm
Im stuck in the terrible cycle! im upset
and depressed because i dont have a
girlfriend and because im upset im always
in horrible moods that push people away
and keep me from finding someone.
this upset depressed person is not me!
whenever i feel a girl likes me i start
feeling so happy but if anything goes
wrong or if it doesn't work out i get so
depressed and all the happiness goes away.
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Maddie34
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Posted: 10-28-07 00:22am
The thing about relationships that people
tend to forget is that there really is no
such thing as an absolutely perfect
relationship. There will always be ups and
downs, turns and twists, good times and
rough times..-- you get the idea. The
point is sometimes you get a bump in a
relationship, and you need to remember
that there's two of you. So you can't just
shut down at the sign of trouble because
then what is your girlfriend supposed to
do?
At the first sign of trouble you should
just remember that these things happen and
then think of ways to fix them, however
not by yourself. Its a relationship and it
involves two people. So sit with your lady
and talk it over rather than thinking too
much on your own. (It's a common mistake
for me and always gets me in trouble)
