Greetings all!
Wondering if i can get some input on my
problem.. Here it is.. I am 21 years old,
and have been having some problems with
keeping an erection for more than a few
minutes.. Heres the situation.. I'd say
about 40% of the time i can hold an
erection (if the mood is just right) and
masterbate for aprox 10-15 minutes with no
problems... But other times it will get
hard to being with, and then a few minutes
pass and it gets soft. If i'm watching
exotic videos i can keep it hard the whole
time, and almost every time. My girlfriend
got really stressed out because she
thought it was her fault for my loss of
erection, when really, i'm attracted to
her, and just thinking about her in sexual
content makes me hard. We've only been
together a week now, and before her i
havent been with a girl sexually for
almost 2 years. I have smoked marijuana
for almost 9 years and cigarettes for the
past 3, and just a week ago i have
completely cut out both (mainly personal
reasons, but i did want to quit for her as
well since she doesnt agree with either,
although this does not bug me in the
slightest bit and i really dont crave
either anymore -AT ALL). This problem has
really only been going on for maybe 8
months now or so, and its starting to
stress me out, i'm wondering if its just
all in my head since i can get a full
erection while watching exotic material
(although now that i think about it, ive
really cut back about 95% of the exotics i
watch now over the past 6 months due to my
computer being in the living room now, but
i do love the stuff...), or in the morning
when i wake up i sometime awake with an
erection, or when i'm thinking about my
new girlfriend sexually.. Just when it
comes down to it, i cant hold the erection
under certain conditions.. For instance,
she was giving me oral and i could only
get semi hard, but if i'm kissing her and
shes tugging away with her hands then it
gets hard, but as soon as we go to have
sex, it goes semi hard again.. I mean,
there is exceptions where it will stay
hard for a few minutes then go semi hard
again off n on the whole time we're having
fun, so I'm wondering if its because its
too late at night when we try to have fun,
since i'm usually fairly exhausted (will
try out this possibility today/tomorrow),
and also i'm going to try and drink some
caffeine/energy drinks before we go ahead
and see if that helps any... Anyway, i
know ive gone on about a few things here
that might over lapse and/or contradict
each other in some ways, and i really
appreciate whomever reads this and/or
replies! Thanks for your time men and
women! Hope to hear some good input so i
can resolve this problem! I'm almost
certain its not a huge issue, but i am to
some extent a bit scared.. But anyway.
Chow for now folks!
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-29-07 09:54am
I personally think it has more to do with
the fact that you've only been with this
girl for a week. You need time to get used
to her, maybe you're so worked up about
having a good erection that you're not
enjoying yourself as much as you could.
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Greetings all!
Wondering if i can get some input on my
problem.. Here it is.. I am 21 years old,
and have been having some problems with
keeping an erection for more than a few
minutes.. Heres the situation.. I'd say
about 40% of the time i can hold an
erection (if the mood is just right) and
masterbate for aprox 10-15 minutes with no
problems... But other times it will get
hard to being with, and then a few minutes
pass and it gets soft. If i'm watching
exotic videos i can keep it hard the whole
time, and almost every time. My girlfriend
got really stressed out because she
thought it was her fault for my loss of
erection, when really, i'm attracted to
her, and just thinking about her in sexual
content makes me hard. We've only been
together a week now, and before her i
havent been with a girl sexually for
almost 2 years. I have smoked marijuana
for almost 9 years and cigarettes for the
past 3, and just a week ago i have
completely cut out both (mainly personal
reasons, but i did want to quit for her as
well since she doesnt agree with either,
although this does not bug me in the
slightest bit and i really dont crave
either anymore -AT ALL). This problem has
really only been going on for maybe 8
months now or so, and its starting to
stress me out, i'm wondering if its just
all in my head since i can get a full
erection while watching exotic material
(although now that i think about it, ive
really cut back about 95% of the exotics i
watch now over the past 6 months due to my
computer being in the living room now, but
i do love the stuff...), or in the morning
when i wake up i sometime awake with an
erection, or when i'm thinking about my
new girlfriend sexually.. Just when it
comes down to it, i cant hold the erection
under certain conditions.. For instance,
she was giving me oral and i could only
get semi hard, but if i'm kissing her and
shes tugging away with her hands then it
gets hard, but as soon as we go to have
sex, it goes semi hard again.. I mean,
there is exceptions where it will stay
hard for a few minutes then go semi hard
again off n on the whole time we're having
fun, so I'm wondering if its because its
too late at night when we try to have fun,
since i'm usually fairly exhausted (will
try out this possibility today/tomorrow),
and also i'm going to try and drink some
caffeine/energy drinks before we go ahead
and see if that helps any... Anyway, i
know ive gone on about a few things here
that might over lapse and/or contradict
each other in some ways, and i really
appreciate whomever reads this and/or
replies! Thanks for your time men and
women! Hope to hear some good input so i
can resolve this problem! I'm almost
certain its not a huge issue, but i am to
some extent a bit scared.. But anyway.
Chow for now folks! 
