Is He Ready? Or Just Waiting. Im Confused Posted: 10-27-07 15:55pm
Ok My realtionship is going wonderful, im
wondering if hes ready to ever settle
down?
Ok We have been together for about 3
years and we have an apartment together, i
always have to remind him to somtimes give
me flower or to do stuff with me. Its
kinda frusterating, i mean i do a lot for
him i cook clean, and work overtime!
I guess i just dont think he wants to
move further, i mean i've asked him but
its always..."you know i love you" and "we
need to save money" and well i know we
need to do so, he buys stuff that we dont
need like a new game or somthing. But
anyways what do you all think?
im not being selfish but shouldnt a person
get somthing nice for her birthday? lol i
got nothin, and i don''t mind. but i kinda
do. arg anyway..
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Joined: 27 Oct 2007 Posts: 10
Posted: 10-27-07 16:36pm
sweet so i guess my topic isnt
interesting. ah well have a great day
everyone...
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ladyT02
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Posted: 10-27-07 17:01pm
Well me and my boyfriend have been
together for a year and 1 mnth. We have
been living together for about 5mnths.
Right now he.s got a lot of financial
trouble so I'm helping him out while he
starts his new job and gets back on his
feet. It does get hard cause I get home
sometimes at 10pm and I still cook, try to
clean, etc. So my work is never done lol
sometimes I feel like he doesn't notice
and I let him know how I feel. That.ll
usually get him to help around the house.
Your not being selfish you deserve to be
appreciated. Sometimes feel like me and my
guy aren't on the same page. Specially
when it comes to kids lol I want to have a
baby when in around 26 28 still young. He
wants to wait till he's 30 or older and it sucks cause
what if we had an accident. Lol but I keep
telling myself I'm not gonna give that up
jus because he says so. My point is stay
true to yourself and if you guys aren't on
the same page you really need to sit down
and talk
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blondie_899
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Joined: 18 Oct 2007 Posts: 62
Posted: 10-28-07 00:33am
You didn't get anything for your birthday?
That is really sad im sorry he could at
least gotten you a card.If you have to
remind him to do sweet things for you then
that isn't a good sign.Tell him exactly
how you feel.If he isn't ready to move on
for awhile then maybe you should re think
your relationship.Afterall you can't wait
forever.
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Joined: 27 Oct 2007 Posts: 10
Posted: 10-28-07 13:18pm
i wouldnt rethink my realationship, he
might just be not romantic or what not. im
sure things will happen when we are
financially stable. Thanks everyone
and it sucks cause
what if we had an accident. Lol but I keep
telling myself I'm not gonna give that up
jus because he says so. My point is stay
true to yourself and if you guys aren't on
the same page you really need to sit down
and talk