Hi,
I used to be a really horny person.
Last Tuesday my girlfriend said to me (on
friday we can have sex) it would have been
my first time.
Since then I have not been horny much and
it takes 5 times the effort to get a
boner.
I was sat there with my girlfriend with
nothing on... and I felt nothing.
(I can get erect but it takes a lot of
effort which is not normal and this has
never happened before)
Also I am 17 years old.
Whats wrong?
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LCJ001
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2007 Posts: 9
Posted: 10-28-07 09:12am
I don't know exactly, I am not trying to
be rude but maybe your girlfriend isn't
that good looking or maybe something about
her doesn't really interest you. I would
suggest that you try watching your
favorite type of porn, for example if you
like girls with big breasts or big butts,
or maybe a different race like asian or
black. My point is watch your favorite
type that would make you wanna do it with
girl or girls so bad, and see how quickly
you would get a boner, if you get it
quickly then maybe the problem is that
your girlfriend isn't exactly your type
but this is very unlikely.
My best guess would be that you're too
nervous to do it with your girlfriend or
maybe too shy, so next time you try to do
it just try to relax and know that your
girlfriend isn't a stranger. I can't get a
boner when I see a porn scene and somebody
else is in the room, I would if it was a
girl I would have sex with, but if its a
friend or somebody else then i wont.
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Tylanas
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Re: Cant Get Horny! Posted: 10-28-07 10:50am
Luke Beale
wrote:
Hi,
I used to be a really horny person.
Last Tuesday my girlfriend said to me (on
friday we can have sex) it would have been
my first time.
Since then I have not been horny much and
it takes 5 times the effort to get a
boner.
I was sat there with my girlfriend with
nothing on... and I felt nothing.
(I can get erect but it takes a lot of
effort which is not normal and this has
never happened before)
Also I am 17 years old.
Whats wrong?
It definitely sounds like you were
completely psyched out and nervous. Don't
make sex a planned thing! Stop. Relax.
Forget about sex for now. It doesn't
matter. Go back to hanging out with your
girlfriend. Have some alone time, watch a
movie, make out. Let nature take its
course! I assure you that if you stop
TRYING to have sex, it will happen.
