Joined: 27 Sep 2007 Posts: 44 Location: Long Beach, Ca USA
Any recommendations for a woman TTC? Posted: 10-28-07 11:02am
okay this is going to sound crazy but in
August I had a positive preg. test, and
all the symptoms, so about 1 1/2 later I
went to see my doctor, and had a blood
test done, and it was neg. my period was
4 days late and all, so I was like okay
whatever. of course we were disappointed
when af showed up. so we wondered what
the heck happened. my dr said that
possible it was a chemical preg. and that
many women are preg. and don't know, but
they think that they are just having a
normal period, but the egg didn't implant
itself. Now I am not a stupid person, but
I again was like whatever, we'll just keep
trying (that's the fun part) of course.
We have been ttc for 3 months now, and I
just had my first preconception appt, and
the dr. said that I am doing what I am
supposed to be doing, taking prenatals,
eating healthy, and keeping up with
charting. It is so frustrating, I already
have one son who is 8yrs old, but I just
got married in March and my husband has no
children, but my son now. Is there
anything that anyone can recommend
anything else for me to do. also, it
would be nice to have somebody that I can
talk to that is going through the same
thing, (TTC) but anyway, BABYDUST,
BABYDUST, BABYDUST to all of you, and a
little for me.
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shortgeek
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Dec 2006 Posts: 597 Location: DC
Posted: 10-28-07 19:07pm
There are a number of us going through
this. Everyone is very supportive.
Another suggestion I have at this point is
to try opks. They will give you a heads
up a few days before you ovulate. The
temping is good for figuring out if you
have normal cycles, but what really helps
is knowing when you should be bding.
You can also pay attention to your cm.
The consistency and abundancy tells you
how fertile you are.
Good luck and baby dust!
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barbee52
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2007 Posts: 74 Location: , al
Posted: 10-29-07 12:29pm
Luscious 10, you sound like you are doing
the right things so just relax and
everything will come together when the
time is right. I know that sounds stupid,
but that is what i'm having to tell myself
everyday. I miscarried in July and have
been ttc since then. I get so down
sometimes cause it has not happened yet.
Lots of baby dust to you!!
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luscious10
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Sep 2007 Posts: 44 Location: Long Beach, Ca USA
Posted: 10-29-07 15:38pm
thank you very much. I know I just have
to be patient. but like you said it is so
hard. Right before af comes I like, well
I don't feel like she's going to come, so
a part of me gets really happy, then boom
her she is. I think well, it will happen
when it happens. but thank you, and I am
sorry to hear about your miscarriage,
bundles of BABYDUST to you.
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jorgesgirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Oct 2007 Posts: 104 Location: , Florida
Posted: 10-30-07 17:46pm
Uuummmm you are on the right track but
remember to enjoy bding and spice it up a
little. For example wear something
different and set the mood