vanessalouanne
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Feeling Very, Very Sorry For Myself Right Now
Posted: 10-28-07 20:43pm
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Brians gone, my house feels empty. When
he gets home he will of been gone for the
last 46 days of 59.
Then he will be home for a month or two
and then he'll leave again for seven.
It wouldnt be so bad if he werent my best
friend. I hate that he has to miss brees
first steps, first birthday, my bday, his
bday, anniversaries, milestones in our
daughters life. Ive been sobbing all
day.. maybe im pmsing?
This is awful. Being a stay at home mom
with nothing to do right now sucks.
Sorry guys, just feeling super sorry for
myself right now.
And please hold off on the he signed up
for this remarks. I know that and I know
what I agreed to but im not in the mood to
be criticized for feeling sad.
hahah end of pitty party.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 10-28-07 20:45pm
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I'm so sorry, Vanessa. This must be so
hard. 
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 10-28-07 20:46pm
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It's okay Vanessa, it's okay to be upset.
I'm sorry you're so sad, I *hate* feeling
lonely & being alone, if you ever need
anything you can pm me & I'll listen
to you!
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 10-28-07 20:48pm
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thanks guys, I appreciate it. My mom sort
of ditched me tonight (we were suppose to
get out of the house somewhere) so thats
what sort of started my feeling sorry for
myself .. ahh I need to snap out of this!!
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 10-28-07 20:54pm
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I'd feel like a complete ass if I told
someone "your husband signed up for this
so deal with it". They're over there
risking their lives and I'm sitting here
comfortable at home enjoying my freedom.
Nope, I have nothing but love for everyone
in the military, and nothing but RESPECT
for their families for being so strong.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 10-28-07 20:54pm
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If I lived closer I'd go somewhere with
you =) I need to get out of the house,
too. Does your family live close by?
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young Girl
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Posted: 10-28-07 20:54pm
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hey vanessa
man youre a super strong person. youre
doing a great job hun. hang in there even
when it gets tough
im sorry about everything though
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 10-28-07 21:03pm
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| AyaMiyaki
wrote: | | I'd feel like a complete ass
if I told someone "your husband signed up
for this so deal with it". They're over
there risking their lives and I'm sitting
here comfortable at home enjoying my
freedom. Nope, I have nothing but love for
everyone in the military, and nothing but
RESPECT for their families for being so
strong. |
Its been said to me by more then one
person on here so I figured id throw it
out there. See I feel even more guilty
when I complain because my husband has to
be in a uncomfortable, dangerous place and
I know it hurts him just as bad as it does
me, but he still never complains. I have
it pretty good too.
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 10-28-07 21:04pm
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| HcoBrunette06
wrote: | | If I lived closer I'd go
somewhere with you =) I need to get out of
the house, too. Does your family live
close by? |
yeah like 45 minutes away but my sister
and her two girls live there and my sister
is straight drama so I try to avoid that
as much as possible.
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 10-28-07 21:04pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | hey vanessa
man youre a super strong person. youre
doing a great job hun. hang in there even
when it gets tough
im sorry about everything though |
I dont feel very strong right now.. im
just tired..it was so much easier to do
without Brianna. She makes all the
difference.
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mommy_2_dallas0813
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Posted: 10-28-07 21:23pm
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I am so sorry you are going through this.
I know it has to be sososo hard on you and
Bree and your hubby. My s/o is in just the
reserves and its hard on me him leaving
for the weekend. If you ever want to talk
just PM me!! And I'll give you my email or
something...ttyl!! Smile!!
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 10-28-07 21:30pm
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yeah, V.. its gotta blow. I cant say i've
been there.. but i can tell u i know what
its like to miss somebody. I get antsy for
Rob to get home after a 12 hour shift.. i
cant imagine him being gone for that
long.
I'll cry with u!
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OctoberBaby06
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Posted: 10-28-07 21:32pm
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I don't know how you ladies do it, I have
a huge amount of respect for all of you
though because I don't know if I'd be able
to handle it!
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Fairy*Godmother
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Hey Girlfriend!
Posted: 10-28-07 21:45pm
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Vanessa, I for one am very proud of
you........very so very much proud of the
man you married and father to Brianna. He
is out there everyday putting his life on
the line for each and everyone of us...and
I thank you and hope you pass this on to
him. It has to be devastating on him
knowing he is missing out on his daughters
first, and annive. and
birthdays........but this is not
permanent. Why do you not start making a
scrap book for him on like a day to day
basis? No, its not the same, but at least
he can experience the "first' by using
pictures and words of how it felt to you.
THings go by a lot quicker when you have
someting to occupy your time. I remember
being out in Lawton Oklahoma, alone during
my first husbands duty. I had no family or
friends........I stayed home in an empty
apartment alone, with nothing to do but a
tv set.....no car to drive....I was only
19. I went to a craft place and started
learning needle point, crochet and
painting. I made Christmas presents and
passed the time until my huisband came
home. How I wish you lived closer, I'd
make damned sure you and Bree would not be
lonesome.....I'd adopt you as my own! But
we know that not possible, so we are
alwasy here if you want to vent
Sweetheart. You can alwasy PM me as
well............I am Fairy*Godmother, 50
and have a daughter 24.............and no
grandchildren in site.....so I can pretend
to be yours and anyones elses! HUGS to
you! Mary
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kaiteo
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Posted: 10-28-07 21:51pm
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I agree. I can't imagine going through
what you're going through. At least it's
for a good cause, honey. Stay strong <3
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 10-28-07 21:56pm
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thanks guys..
Your all awesome. I really do feel better
now.
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 10-28-07 22:45pm
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Yay, V!! Panty party time!
*throws panties on the floor with
enthusiasm. . . .
chases after the dog after he picks them
up and runs off. . .*
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Posted: 10-28-07 23:10pm
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Vanessa, Im sorry that you are going
through all of this. I hope it gets
better for you...
Im going to be out that way for
Thanksgiving, I can keep you company!
I hope you will get into a routine with
yourself and Bree so you don't think about
it as much.
I posted something for you military wives
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Becky
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Posted: 10-29-07 03:08am
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I'm sorry. Although it's not the same,
Robbie left yesterday and will be gone for
7 weeks.
It sucks 
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Daniella
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Posted: 10-29-07 04:13am
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I will pray for you, your hubby and
family, I get teary eyed just trying to
put myself in your situation, may God
bless all of the military and their
families.
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