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smith8500
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Paternity Question
Posted: 04-04-04 05:00am
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For example: if I were to get preggy for
josh and he would say it wasn't his. But
I would know it could only be his!!!!
Can I get the courts to issue a paternity
test if he's not willing to take one?
Can't I like, tell them he's denying my
child and I was dna and (i know they
cost!!) can't they order one???
Thanks,
chanda
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dominicksmommie
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Posted: 04-04-04 05:26am
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Hey chanda
I think they would issue one well order
for one to be put in place.... If he is
the one doubtin then he would be financily
responsible for it... They cost 600 bucks
if u go through dna diagnostic.. 600
canadian anyways
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 04-04-04 05:38am
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Yea, they are cheaper down here in the
states...But, u could take him to court
and get a dna test ordered and if he fails
to take it he will get thrown in jail
until he complies with the order :d---and
he has to pay for it, im pretty sure...
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smith8500
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Hey
Posted: 04-04-04 06:54am
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I think ya'll are right. But, I think if
he's denying the child and it's his then
he will have to pay. But if you test and
it's not his, you will have the bill. I
think that is how it works, but I wasn't
sure.
Love,
chanda
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 04-04-04 07:35am
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Y r u pregnant? 
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kitty_55
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Posted: 04-04-04 09:48am
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Thats what I was wondering too jordan!!
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JillMarie
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Posted: 04-04-04 10:30am
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Yes he would be forced to go! If he didnt
show up after 3 scheduled paternity tests
they would automatically determine him as
the father legally and he would have to
pay child support. If he wanted to take
one later he would have to petition the
court and try to make you go if you were
not willing.
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smith8500
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Hey
Posted: 04-04-04 11:03am
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Ok jill. Just asking. Thanks everyone!
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sparklypixie12
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smith8500
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Hey
Posted: 04-06-04 02:57am
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Omg~liz lol.
Pregnant? Not exactly.... I was just
wondering.
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JillMarie
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Posted: 04-06-04 02:58am
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Chanda...........What are you up to?????
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smith8500
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Hey
Posted: 04-06-04 02:59am
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JillMarie
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Posted: 04-06-04 03:12am
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Is there something your not telling us??
Im really just teasing but it does seem
like you have a hidden agenda behind your
question! 
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smith8500
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Hey
Posted: 04-06-04 05:07am
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Not exactly jill. Um, i'm not one of
those people who scream "i think i'm
pregnant" every other month! But...... I
think I may be pregnant.....
Unnn, josh and I had sex the last time on
feb 19, inprotected. Yes, I knew he
wasn't wearing the condom I gave
him!!!!!!
I haven't had a peroid since then..... I
was due for one around the 20th of feb and
around that time in march and I haven't
had either........ Now, with things as
bad as they are with us..... I don't want
to know. I don't think I want to be....
I judt dunno.
Why didn't I tell everyone? Nothing
personal. I don't like to get peoples
hopes up or anything, or excited or
anything......I dunno. I'm confused.
And people tell me to just get over
him.....Hmmmm, eaiser said than done!
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 04-06-04 05:34am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-15-04 13:54pm; edited 1 time in total
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JillMarie
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Posted: 04-06-04 05:55am
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Hey girl! Well I wasent trying to pry or
anything but I thought it would be okay
since we are close. I will be very happy
for you either way whatever makes you
happy. Even if he isnt around you will be
a great mommy if that is the route you
decide to go. You know ill always be
there for you and I only wish the best for
you. Are you planning on taking a test
soon? Im here to talk when ever hun!!
good luck!
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smith8500
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Hey
Posted: 04-06-04 05:59am
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If I am....I'll 100% have and raise my
child. With or without joshua. I just, I
know I can do it. I just don't think I
want to be.....Because I don't want all
the caca that will come along with him.
My child would have a 1/2
sibling.....Awwww the crap would just
mount......
Jill, you wern't prying. I wanted to tell
you all. I really did. I guess just
saying " I might be preggy" makes me
think.....It really is possible..... And
I don't know if I like that or not.....
Love,
chanda
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JillMarie
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Posted: 04-06-04 06:03am
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I know what you mean! It seems like I
would be worried about being pregnant
every month and the month before I really
did get pregnant I thought I was for sure
and I had jesse all excited then I started
and it made him all sad so when I thought
I was the next month I took the test first
before getting his hopes up. I know its
scarey right now but if I were you I would
get a test and find out then let josh know
and let him decide what he is going to do.
Good luck again hun!!
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 04-06-04 06:24am
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Take a damn test chanda!!! Lol, I wanna
know!!!
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JillMarie
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Posted: 04-06-04 06:24am
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Lol jordan!!
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