Cant Get Hard or Maintain an Erection caused by Jerking Off? Posted: 10-30-07 19:56pm
I am 17 years old . I CAN get an errection
but it has become so hard to get an
errection when im with my gf that she gets
tired of waiting, and once I do get an
errection, I can't maintain it. To get an
errection, I have to really concentrate-
even if shes naked ontop of me on my bed I
cant get it up! However, when we have
phone sex I get an errection no porblem. I
have been jerking off everyday, around
twice a day since I was 12 (recently I
slowed it down to every other day), can
this be the cause of the problem? Shes the
girl I lost my virginity to, about 4
months ago (and it was easier to get an
errection then).
I am not fat, I weigh 130 and im about 5'
11"- don't know if that helps. I once took
Horny Goat Weed (which I bought at
Krauserz) and it got me hard as a rock!
However, I bought a bottle of it from
Vitamin Shoppe and it doesn't do anything
to me now. I have been taking Korean
Gingseng for about a month (no change),
and I just purchased Steel-Libido today,
hoping it will work. Any advice? thanks!
=(
horny goat weed i used - (i take 4 before
sex, no help)
another horny goat weed i used - (i take 2
a day, 4 before sex)
steel-libido i have yet to try -
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kelsouta03
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2007 Posts: 3
Posted: 10-31-07 00:04am
I faced erection problems for the past
couple of years and I'm only 24. I could
only achieve them while sitting down and
everyone kept telling me that it was all
in my head. I had problems with girls
when we would get intimate and that only
worsened the problem. The bottom line is
that now I am completely fine with no
problems because it was all in my head,
which i can almost guarantee you that your
problem is completely in your head even
though you think it's not. You have
anxiety about it when with your
girlfriend, that was my problem. Since
it's happened once you're thinking about
it and you expect it to happen again, that
was my problem as well. If you wake up
with morning erections and you are able to
have erections, I can almost guarantee you
that the problem lies in your brain. It's
an anxiety issue and it's tough to deal
with. Just pray to the good man upstairs
and mean it when you say you want this
burden off your chest. It worked for me
and im 100 percent now
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jtballer08
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2007 Posts: 3
Posted: 10-31-07 12:55pm
kelsouta03
wrote:
I faced erection problems
for the past couple of years and I'm only
24. I could only achieve them while
sitting down and everyone kept telling me
that it was all in my head. I had
problems with girls when we would get
intimate and that only worsened the
problem. The bottom line is that now I am
completely fine with no problems because
it was all in my head, which i can almost
guarantee you that your problem is
completely in your head even though you
think it's not. You have anxiety about it
when with your girlfriend, that was my
problem. Since it's happened once you're
thinking about it and you expect it to
happen again, that was my problem as well.
If you wake up with morning erections and
you are able to have erections, I can
almost guarantee you that the problem lies
in your brain. It's an anxiety issue and
it's tough to deal with. Just pray to the
good man upstairs and mean it when you say
you want this burden off your chest. It
worked for me and im 100 percent
now
I do get morning errections, however I
NEVER think about it when I am with my
girlfriend- the only time I think about it
is when I am not with her actually. I
really don't think its in my head.
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sjdude
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Oct 2007 Posts: 13
Hey Posted: 11-01-07 00:10am
try cutting back on the masturbation...
don't do it for a week or two and when you
are gonna have sex with your girlfriend
you'll probably surprise her. Give it a
shot.
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jtballer08
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2007 Posts: 3
Re: Hey Posted: 11-01-07 10:10am
sjdude
wrote:
try cutting back on the
masturbation... don't do it for a week or
two and when you are gonna have sex with
your girlfriend you'll probably surprise
her. Give it a
shot.
I was thinking about that.. I am going to
definately try that and post back
