a Question About Clitoris Stimulation Posted: 10-31-07 11:14am
Greetings, Ok, I'm asking this for my
girlfriend/fiance. Her question is a bit
on the unusual side, so I figured I would
hunt up a forum and see if anyone else has
ran into this or knows anything about it.
We are both very active sexually, daily,
if not more than once daily. I'm 40, and
she's 33, what we have come to notice is
that her clitoris is almost non-existant.
I've stimulated it in several different
way, attempting to create a larger target
for better stimulation, yet there seems to
be nothing. Under her hood, is flat, with
a slight raw "tasting" spot. I can
stimulate that area via oral, and it has
the same affect as stimulating her
clitoris.
As a bit of history here, she has been
sexually abused from age of about 3 by a
family member, who constantly gave her
oral sex on a weekly or more basis. As she
got around 13 to 14 she started to tell
him no and such, so it slacked off more
than. After she got older, around 16 she
started having normal sex, she started
masterbating around effectively till about
24ish. After that, her main form of
stimulation during masterbation was direct
stimulation to the clitoris. Now as years
have past, she is finding that not only
does the "magic" spot seems to move, and
sometimes not sensitive at all, but also
is badly over-sensitive at times, to the
point of near pain.
Now I'm thinking there has to be a way to
help her restore some of her natural
balance and such? Anyone any imput here?
Also, She has noticed that IF she goes for
about a week without ANY stimulaltion at
all, it reacts somewhat normally for the
first couple of times but returns to its
strange behavior quickly.
Desprately Seeking Answers!
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Marlene Taylor
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Joined: 31 Oct 2007 Posts: 4
Posted: 11-01-07 05:03am
Anyone? Not sure how long it takes for
people to give imput? Or if this is just a
strange problems no one has heard of.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-01-07 10:13am
I'm surprised no one answered you!
All I can say is that clitorises are small
sometimes! I don't have a large clitoris
either, though it is visible if the hood
is pulled very far back.
She should perhaps try learning to
masturbate by NOT directly stimulating the
clitoris. A vibrator can aid in this
venture.
I can only orgasm a few times and not in a
row; I have to relax in betweeen.
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Marlene Taylor
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2007 Posts: 4
Posted: 11-02-07 11:53am
Yea, I'm suprised others haven't jumped
into this conversation, part of the issue
is she prefers not to use items for
stimulation, I "as in BF" can use oral to
get her off, or hand or such, but we were
trying to see if there is a way to make it
so she can have a orgasm easier without
excessive clitoris masterbation. She has
"medium" grade orgasms during actual sex,
but finds it insanely difficult to have a
full fledge large orgasm, it has happened
just very seldom.
