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Amber*Marie
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Help Me!!!!!!!
Posted: 11-01-07 20:26pm
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Im having a nervous break down!!! I cant
stop crying and Im having suicidal
thoughts. Im shaking like a health
related! Cant even go outside to smoke
because Amelia screams. She wont sleep no
more than 15 minutes top tonight. Im
sleepy as hell and I can barley hold my
eyes open. I wish I would have died in
that bad car wreck I had. I dont want to
live anymore I hate my doing it life! I
get no help from anyone. I called several
family members to come get Amelia and just
give me a doing it break for once. No one
will take off work!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I cant do
this anymore. I just begged and pleaded
with joey to come home he told me no
because he dont want to lose any money. We
just got a huge amount of money and have
all our bills paid 2 months in advance. He
just doing it hates me!! Im seriously
thinking about calling 911. I just want to
die. If you dont see me post for awhile
you know I killed myself!
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Ingi
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Posted: 11-01-07 20:28pm
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Call your mother inlaw immediately and
tell her to come to your house RIGHT NOW
you need someone there to take that baby.
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Mommy35
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Posted: 11-01-07 20:28pm
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Oh Amber, please take a deep breath and
try to calm down. Please don't do
anything to hurt yourself.
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jessesgirl
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Posted: 11-01-07 20:28pm
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Don't do that. That baby needs you. Get
anyone, a neighbor. Call the police if
you have to. Don't hurt yourself or her.
Is she sick? Why isn't she sleeping well?
Last edited by jessesgirl on 11-01-07 20:29pm; edited 1 time in total
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Ingi
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Posted: 11-01-07 20:29pm
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This is also a very serious situation.
Perhaps this is EXACLTY what you need to
do. Call 911 and tell them you feel like
harming yourself. They will come to your
home and Joey will come there and he will
HAVE TO FACE THIS.
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Marfa2107
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Location: Galena, Kansas United States
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Posted: 11-01-07 20:30pm
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Amber, calm down and breathe!
think about what you're saying...
if you take your life who will Amelia
have?...
just try to be as strong as possible
try and call your Mother-in-law
and have her come pick up Amelia..
we're here to help..
...vent..and keep talkin to us
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Mommy35
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Posted: 11-01-07 20:30pm
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I'm sure that Amelia can sense you are at
your wits end and maybe that is why she is
upset. I am certainly not one to let a
baby scream, but I think maybe that is
what you need to do right now. Go outside
and smoke a cigarette.
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Amber*Marie
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Posted: 11-01-07 20:31pm
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| Ingi
wrote: | | Call your mother inlaw
immediately and tell her to come to your
house RIGHT NOW you need someone there to
take that baby. |
She wont answer. Shes already in bed I
guess. Im a freakin horrible mother. I
cant even take care of my own child. Her
waking up in the night isnt suppose to
bother me. But these past weeks its
killing me. I dont get no rest. No one
cares to freaking help me. Its like noone
gives a flying rats ass if I get any rest
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OctoberBaby06
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Posted: 11-01-07 20:32pm
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Amber call you mother in law & tell
her you NEED someone to come get Amelia.
Please don't do anything to yourself 
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Ingi
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Posted: 11-01-07 20:32pm
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Did you tell Joey you feel like killing
yourself and if he doesn't come home you
are calling 911?
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OctoberBaby06
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Posted: 11-01-07 20:33pm
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I seriously wish I lived closer to you.
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young Girl
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Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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Posted: 11-01-07 20:33pm
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amber hun
do you have any friends that can take her
for a while? or someone?
please hun dont hurt yourself
where is joey at?!
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Amber*Marie
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Posted: 11-01-07 20:34pm
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i getting doing it sick. I feel like Im
going to barf. i cant breathe. My vision
is going blurry. All the neighbors that I
trust also work night shift. My body is
shaking and my hands are tingling.
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jessesgirl
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Posted: 11-01-07 20:34pm
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I've been there waking up all night and
feeling like no one wants to help so I
could rest. I have some tips to help you
to help her sleep, but that's not
important right now. Call the police and
let her cry a little. She'll be fine
while you go take a breather.
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Ingi
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Posted: 11-01-07 20:34pm
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If he does not come home after you tell
him that, I think you should call 911. It
is time for this issue to be taken
seriously. Both you and he need to get in
some counselling together so you don't end
up with ALL the responsibility in the
parenting.
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Mommy35
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Location: Vacationland, USA,
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Posted: 11-01-07 20:37pm
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Seriously if you call your ER they should
be able to give you a number to a crisis
service in your area. Those people are
trained to help.
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Amber*Marie
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Posted: 11-01-07 20:39pm
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I text and told him. I even called him but
he wont answer! nor text back. It didnt
take him to text back and say no awhile
ago. Hes just ignoring me! I guess he
thinks Im trying to get some kind of
pitty. If he dont come then Im leaving
him. It will show that he dont care enough
about me nor Amelia. I know I said I was
going to leave him before but its so doing
it hard. He always promoses to do better
but he never does. But I always fall for
it
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OctoberBaby06
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Posted: 11-01-07 20:39pm
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Put Amelia in her crib & go outside.
Let her cry for a few minutes, she'll be
fine.
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Ingi
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Rae02
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Joined: 13 Sep 2007
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Location: , LA
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Posted: 11-01-07 20:41pm
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Please don't harm yourself..
Do you have anyone that can get to you
right now?
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