Ingi
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Posted: 11-01-07 21:54pm
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| BamaMommy
wrote: | | iridescent_opal
wrote: | She will be fine. She
obviously is capable of crying it out. As
it goes she will cry less before she gets
the idea but it WILL get easier.
As for HIM. You need to sit him down and
talk when you are calmer and explain how
YOU feel. Do not let him interupt you
until you get your thoughts out and then
you can both discuss the situation.
Couple counciling might help as
well. |
We have been through this 3 times
already. He promises he will do better and
he never does. i just keep falling for it.
I been so upset and stressed these past
weeks that my period is 2-3days late. No
im not pregnant lol. Cant get pregnant
unless you have sex.Which we hadly ever
do. Just dont like it with him anymore. I
guess thats another reason why I been like
this |
OK, one more time. YOU ARE EXHAUSTED. GET
TO BED.
Let today be over. Tomorrow will be
better. You are wasting valuable resting
time. Shut off your thoughts and sleep.
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Amber*Marie
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Posted: 11-01-07 21:55pm
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lol Im going to try to eat me something
while Im on here and then I will go shower
and go lay my bed and give my pillow some
head
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 11-01-07 21:55pm
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You need rest. Go to bed before you burn
out completely. Hurry up and sleep while
she's sleeping. I regret it every time I
don't. If she does wake up again at least
you'll have gotten a little bit of rest so
you'll be better able to deal with it.
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OctoberBaby06
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Posted: 11-01-07 21:55pm
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Could you go to court & get custody of
Amelia so that if you moved to a different
state he wouldn't be able to do anything?
I don't know a lot about custody issues so
I don't know how anything works.
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Amber*Marie
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Posted: 11-01-07 21:57pm
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I promise I will as soon as I eat 
| OctoberBaby06
wrote: | | Could you go to court &
get custody of Amelia so that if you moved
to a different state he wouldn't be able
to do anything? I don't know a lot about
custody issues so I don't know how
anything
works. |
i have no idea. Im going to look into that
tomorrow without saying crap to joey
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 11-01-07 22:00pm
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| BamaMommy
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i have no idea. Im going to look into that
tomorrow without saying crap to
joey |
Yeah, you don't ever tell them anything.
Forewarned is forearmed.
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Ingi
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Posted: 11-01-07 22:01pm
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| BamaMommy
wrote: | | without saying crap to
joey |
This is exactly what I would advise. Don't
tell him jack diddly. I mean it. Don't say
anything to him. He had his 'chance/S' and
he blew them.
I think tonight's conversations via text
with him should have been a real eye
opener. If he didn't come to help tonight,
he ain't coming to help.
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Amber*Marie
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Posted: 11-01-07 22:05pm
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i just really scared to be out and alone
wit amelia. If I can do what I done
tonight i definatly can raise her on my
own. If I had an income. Im just so
scared. I never had to be independant.
I wont have a vehicle either. I know he
will take the avalanche away.
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Amber*Marie
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Posted: 11-01-07 22:06pm
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my sub i made taste good. im in a little
better mood now. You all cheered me up.
THANK YOU ALL!
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Rae02
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Posted: 11-01-07 22:09pm
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Get some rest.. you are in my prayers.
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OctoberBaby06
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Posted: 11-01-07 22:09pm
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I'm glad we could all help. I know you had
me worried there for a while! I'm here
ready to jump in my car to drive to
Alabama lmbo!!
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Amber*Marie
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Posted: 11-01-07 22:10pm
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| Rae02
wrote: | | Get some rest.. you are in
my prayers. |
thank you! 
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-01-07 22:10pm
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yay amber!!!!!!!! im glad you got to eat
mmm a sub. wanna make me one?!?!?! im
starving lol
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Amber*Marie
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Posted: 11-01-07 22:11pm
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| OctoberBaby06
wrote: | | I'm glad we could all help.
I know you had me worried there for a
while! I'm here ready to jump in my car to
drive to Alabama
lmbo!! |
you make me feel special. That would have
been a far drive lol. I would do the same
for you guys as well. Serously
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Amber*Marie
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Posted: 11-01-07 22:12pm
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | yay amber!!!!!!!! im glad
you got to eat
mmm a sub. wanna make me one?!?!?! im
starving lol |
what you want on it. I will fed-ex it! lol
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OctoberBaby06
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Posted: 11-01-07 22:13pm
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Haha I would have been there by like ... 3
weeks? Because I'm sure I would have taken
a wrong turn EVERYWHERE!
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Amber*Marie
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Posted: 11-01-07 22:21pm
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| OctoberBaby06
wrote: | | Haha I would have been there
by like ... 3 weeks? Because I'm sure I
would have taken a wrong turn
EVERYWHERE! |
lol I live by the intersate so If you just
stayed on an intersate and go south and
followed signs to I-65 or to huntsville,
AL you would eventually end up here lol.
Im exit 308 off 1-65 lol. Im not great
with intersates. I just know 1-65 runs
north and south lol
Amelia just woke up!!
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Posted: 11-01-07 22:21pm
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Leave her be! if you go get her she'll
continue to cry each time she wakes up
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Ingi
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Posted: 11-01-07 22:22pm
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GET TO BED ALREADY. Sheesh.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-01-07 22:22pm
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thats ok
atleast she got some sleep
even a little bit
to let you have some time to eat and just
relax
its progress
and we are always here if you need
anything okay?
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