AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 11-02-07 22:21pm
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I'm fairly certain that the money your
relative left you wasn't intended for
clothes and purses and whatever it is you
like to go shopping for all the time. It
was most likely intended to help smooth
the transition into the real world.
Meaning, a down payment on a house, a car,
maybe some college classes? Maybe just a
nice bank account to have under your belt
when you have to pay first and last
month's rent plus security, plus get
utilities, plus build your credit. Most
people aren't given much (if any) cushion
when they go out into the real world. It's
frustrating to see a girl talking about
all the money she WASTES (yes, you ARE
wasting it) because you're off just doing
whatever you want to do.
And that's another big issue. You act
exactly like a 16 year old girl. You don't
really act like someone who's about to be
a mother. I don't think you're a very good
role model right now, with the "I'll do
what I want to do and that's all there is
to it" attitude. It's not really something
you want your kids growing up learning. A
perfect example is the Trick or Treating
thing. Your doctor told you that she
didn't recommend you do it, but you did it
anyway because, according to you, you're
stubborn and didn't want to sit at home.
That's not what an expectant mother
does... that's what a teenaged girl does.
I think the main problem here is that
everyone around you is falling over
themselves to pamper you and give you all
of these things, and I don't think you
have any concept of what you actually have
and what you're doing with it. You have no
concept of money because you've never been
without it. You have no idea of what life
is like outside because everyone else
deals with it for you. Which is fine...
except you're BLOWING this great
opportunity of a nice savings account
for... what? Shopping for things you don't
need?
It's just not attractive... any of it.
It's not endearing at all.
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Bridget
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Posted: 11-02-07 22:21pm
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sorry, laura.
i don't know what to do with this... lock
it or leave it open for "discussion"?
i'll leave it open for now...
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-02-07 22:24pm
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lock it
leave it
i dont care
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amethyst eyes
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Posted: 11-02-07 22:27pm
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I agree. I a quite familiar with rescues
working in an Animal Hospital. No
honorable rescuer makes any money through
it. They are practically begging other to
help with the living expenses and they are
most definitely not purchasing designers
labels everyday.
As for the inherited money, I am sure they
did not want you to blow it either. You
have a child on the way and one day you
will have to pay for schooling and health
care. You do not seem very responsible if
you are spending it on jeans instead of a
savings account for your child.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-02-07 22:30pm
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sigh
ive got money put up for kristen
i dont want to talk about it anymore
though
i dont want anyone to know my financial
situation anymore than they already do
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amethyst eyes
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Posted: 11-02-07 22:32pm
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But why not save more. It is all very
immature and the fact that you will be a
parent soon is alarming when you consider
your own representation of yourself.
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Amber*Marie
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Posted: 11-02-07 22:46pm
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Trust me Suzy. No matter how much money
you have saved for her. You will ALWAYS
need more! Kids grow, people lose their
jos, houses get destroyed, etc Never know
what will happen.
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 11-02-07 22:49pm
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I've not heard of an actual rescuer
profiting from their organization. I don't
see why a certain breed would change the
price, unless you're a breeder. The humane
society has a flat price for all dogs, and
another price for puppies. Doesn't matter
if they are a mutt or a purebred. Period.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-02-07 22:58pm
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yep certain rescues charge certain fees
due to the breed or age of dogs
Wee Rescue charges an adoption fee of $250
per dog.All of our dogs are seen by
a veterinarian, are up to date on their
shots, have been checked for
heartworms, have been either treated or on
preventative, and have
been spayed or neutered prior to adoption
For issues of liability, unfortunately, we
do not adopt our small dogs to
families who have small children (under
the age of 10).
FROM WEE RESCUE
lucky mutts rescue charges 125 for adult
dogs and 150 for puppies
blue dog rescue is 150
austin boxer rescue charges Boxer $250
(adult) $300 (puppy)
Boxer Mix $150
Non-boxers $75
Senior Dogs (5 years and older) are $150
to adopt
from SAFE HAVEN dog rescue
Our adoption fee is $135.00 for all dogs
that are 7 years and younger and $95.00
for all dogs older than 7 years and $200
for pure breeds. The adoption fee for cats
is $95.00. If you are adopting two
animals, the adoption fee will be reduced
depending on the types and ages of the
animals being adopted.
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 11-02-07 23:03pm
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i honestly didnt know there were private
organizations like that.
i thought there were like, u know.. boxer
rescue groups and such where u could take
ur dog if u couldnt deal with him
anymore.. i didnt know ppl made money off
of it.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-02-07 23:08pm
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| Sandy_Pants
wrote: | i honestly didnt know there
were private organizations like that.
i thought there were like, u know.. boxer
rescue groups and such where u could take
ur dog if u couldnt deal with him
anymore.. i didnt know ppl made money off
of it. |
there are
those are kill shelters
to take your dog to a rescue group (most
of them) you have to PAY THEM too
its pretty sad sometimes
the humane society here and the aspca are
pretty good places to adopt from
but like i said its really difficult
i understand why they do what they do and
why they do it that way, but it tuns lots
of people away from adopting from them
they passed a new law in texas recently to
be a breeder you have to have a licence.
and pretty soon they will require all pets
in travis county to be fixed unless you
have a breeding licence,which you will
have to pay for and such every year. and
go through inspections and stuff so that
it doesnt turn into a puppy mill
which sadly we have alot of here and they
are just starting to crack down on it
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-02-07 23:23pm
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here is some more
PAWS OF AUSTIN
Adoption Fees:
Mix Breed Dogs - $125.00
Puppies (under 3 months) - $150.00
Pure Breed dogs (excluding Great Danes) -
$150.00
Great Danes and other Giant Breed dogs -
$200.00
Great Dane puppies (under 6 months) -
$250.00
LIL PAWS RESCUE
Adoptions fees will vary -
Birth to 6 months old - $250.00 + $50
deposit (spay/neuter)
6 months old to 10 years old - $200.00
10 years and older - $150.00
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amethyst eyes
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Posted: 11-02-07 23:26pm
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That is your take. I have met many
rescues and they all have to have special
permits which cost lots of money. They
also pay out of pocket for food, shots,
surgeries and health care. Profit is
little to none and it is hard to believe
you can do so while still caring for the
dogs correctly.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-02-07 23:31pm
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yes ive met many rescues like that too
its different in different places though
not all of them are the same
not all rescues are non profit either
and yeah vet care is not that expensive
for shots and to get the dogs fixed.
expecially if you have an established vet
also we have williamson county humane
society,austin emancipet, animal trustees
that we work with that has a complete
package for $40-$59 for everything.
again it depends on where we go,who needs
what done,the age and breed of the
puppies/dogs
oh and alot of the dogs and pups we get
have already been fixed or UTD on shots
some of them just may need an updated
rabies or something
not all of them need complete vet care
however all of them have a FULL VET check
and health check before hand no matter
what which is only $28 at lakeway
vetrinary clinic which is where we go
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amethyst eyes
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Posted: 11-02-07 23:35pm
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So basically you are selling dogs? Meh.
You do not sound very reputable. Rescues
actually help, they do not overcharge on
costs. Say it like it is, not in a way
that makes you sound better than you are.
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 11-02-07 23:37pm
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| iridescent_opal
wrote: | | So basically you are selling
dogs? Meh. You do not sound very
reputable. Rescues actually help, they do
not overcharge on costs. Say it like it
is, not in a way that makes you sound
better than you
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Very well put.
Another thing, Suzy always seems to show
pics of the puppies she's rescued.
Honestly there aren't a whole lot of young
puppies in the shelters. Most are older
puppies or adult dogs. That's always sat
funny with me.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-02-07 23:42pm
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| iridescent_opal
wrote: | | So basically you are selling
dogs? Meh. You do not sound very
reputable. Rescues actually help, they do
not overcharge on costs. Say it like it
is, not in a way that makes you sound
better than you
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funny i posted alot of recues up above
that charge more than the fees i get for
my dogs. i dont sell dogs. none of the
dogs i get are just dogs i get to sell
they need help. they need homes. thats
what i do i take them and find them
homes. is there seriously anyhting wrong
with that? seriously?
mandi yes actually there are so many
shelters over run with puppies. if town
lake gets a litter of puppies under than 8
weeks they have 24 hours to get out before
they will be put to sleep. so many people
just dump off unwanted litters at shelters
and then they get killed
i do lots of rescue from town lake
if youd like the adoption coordinators
contact info for town lake and killeen
animal rescue pm me and ill send it to
you
and if youd like the link to my site you
can have that too
it shows all of the adopted pets
over half of them were grown dogs
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 11-02-07 23:45pm
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i want it i want to look at puppies!! 
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 11-02-07 23:50pm
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| the_girlfriend
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mandi yes actually there are so many
shelters over run with puppies. if town
lake gets a litter of puppies under than 8
weeks they have 24 hours to get out before
they will be put to sleep. so many people
just dump off unwanted litters at shelters
and then they get killed
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That's odd.....I go to the humane society
every other day (literally) and I've yet
to see a young puppy. I've been going
since the end of September. I don't know
if it has to do with where we're from or
not....but I've never known shelters to be
over run with young puppies.
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Fairy Godmother
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Its Not What You Have, Its Who You Have With You............
Posted: 11-02-07 23:50pm
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Suzy, I totally understand wanting and
having things that seem
important.......but, you have to plan
ahead for the future now........ person
can only wear one pair of pants, a caca
and one pair of shoes at a
time............and carry one purse.
MAterial things can be replaced at the
drop of a hat. Its a status thing and so
many young people are wrapped up onto this
they cannot see the damage in the future.
I came from nothing.........I had to use
cloth diapersa nd plasstic plants 24 years
ago. I could not afforid pampers. When i
could wahs htem by hand..(did not afford a
whashing machine, let alone go to a
llaundromat) i hng htem to fry. there were
days, they froze to hte
clothesline........I've used hand towels
and bread wrappers. I ma not too proud to
admit I had it rough. Now, is a different
story. I won my own home, Own rental
property and lots of acerage...........I
own my own 2006 F150 and we own new
motorcycles. We have 401K and investments
and are set up so when I can retie, I can
and not worry about food, or
expenses.............et alone wanting an
ugly ass Louis
Vitton.................JESH.....By the
time Miss K gets ready for school, I know
you will want herin the best privae
school.........this takes money. And by
sacfrificing now, you will be ready in the
future. What if something happened to
either of you and you could not work?
Insurance only pays so much. I don't
believe the others are trying to be mean,
just trying to make you face reality
because you are so very young, and if we
had started at your age, we would be in
better shape. I guess you have tomake
mistakes in order to learn from them. Jusy
casue you have the money now, does not
mean you need to go out and blow
it........I'd love to go to Italy...and
could at the drop of a hat and it be paid
for.......but I look forward to the future
and what if something else somes alone and
I want the money for it, I'd sure as hell
have it...........we just have your back
girlfriend.............trying to help you
before you step in it too deep! HUGS oh,
and for the record...I have an inheritance
coming from my father................but
its going to my daughters
education.................................
....she just doesnt' know it yet!
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