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ThriftyGal

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Car Accident
Posted: 11-04-07 22:31pm

Nathans band went to Kingston to do "battle of the bands" Rolling Eyes

Anyways, I get a message on my phone and he says he was in a car accident, but that he is physically unharmed.

I go out with a friend to pick him up, with Rowan in her seat, and I get to where he's waiting and I give him a hug. None of his stupid band mates stayed with him, for one reason or another, which irritates me. They are drove back to town with a friend.

Except he gets in the car and he's asked again if he's okay and I know he's stressed and down about the accident, but he gets all snappyand says "I already said I'm fine" etc. I understand that he is stressed, but I'm just irritated that he couldn't act a little more greatful because I came home and walked to the store so I could make him what he wanted for dinner and I gave him a massage, and other nice things, and I know his car is a mess and he's angry but he could have said thank you because I've got a paper to write and a test to study for but instead I spent my time doing all that stuff for him!!

I don't even know why I'm complaining... I'm just glad he's okay. We have a ticket to pay now, it's more than a 100 but I'm not sure the exact amount, and whatever other bills come up because of this. We had some extra money for this month but it was mostly going to go into investing in apartment stuff, we don't have chairs yet haha. I just wish it hadn't happened I guess. Blegh.
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Sandbox Party

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Posted: 11-04-07 22:33pm

glad hes ok.
hes probably just stressin about the car, and the ticket, and still pretty shaken.
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ThriftyGal

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Posted: 11-04-07 22:34pm

I know which is why I'm complaining here instead of to him.


I'm mostly just irritated about the ticket and that we won't have much of a way of getting around anymore (well for the next two weeks), not at him. He's my favourite, and I'm just happy he's fine.
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young Girl

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Posted: 11-04-07 22:38pm

ehh im sorry tanya

im with you on the ticket thing. tickets suck
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The Mrs

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Posted: 11-04-07 22:39pm

I'm so sorry to hear that that happened. That's awful. Thank God he's okay!

I'm sure everything will turn out fine. Target has some nice dining chairs on sale. They're dark wood, and I love them. They're like 80 bucks or so for a set of two. I'm sure you'll be able to get some soon.


Last edited by The Mrs on 11-04-07 22:40pm; edited 1 time in total
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ThriftyGal

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Posted: 11-04-07 22:40pm

I told him to go explain himself and get it reduced, you can do that right?

I remember my sisters boyfriend going to court whenever he had speeding tickets to give them excuses and they always lessered his fines or dropped them or something.
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ThriftyGal

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Posted: 11-04-07 22:40pm

The Mrs wrote:
I'm so sorry to hear that that happened. That's awful. Thanks God he's okay!

I'm sure everything will turn out fine. Target has some nice dining chairs on sale. They're dark wood, and I love them. They're like 80 bucks or so for a set of two. I'm sure you'll be able to get some soon.



I think Target is an American thing, I've never seen one around.
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The Mrs

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Posted: 11-04-07 22:43pm

It's an online sale. They have free shipping right now on furniture I think. They can ship to Canada, right?

I forgot you were in Canada when I posted that though. Sorry hun Sad But check it out when you have some time after things have settled down.
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ThriftyGal

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Posted: 11-04-07 22:43pm

I will do that, thanks.
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The Mrs

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Posted: 11-04-07 22:47pm

Ughhhh they have choices for shipping to the armed forces in Europe and such, but no option for canada!

That blows!
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Sandbox Party

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Posted: 11-04-07 23:59pm

Tanya what exactly did he get tickets for? Was he at-fault?

It really all depends on which tickets they are if u can fight them... like wreckless/careless driving, not much of a chance.. but like, speeding is easy especially if its only a few mph (or i think kph in ur area) over the limit.
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sick_mama17

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Posted: 11-05-07 05:31am

I would ave been a bit mad with him for acting snappy when you just did all that stuff for him, but after what he went through I guess its understandable. I think he should apologise when hes over it though, like tomorrow.
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Amber*Marie

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Posted: 11-05-07 07:31am

I glad hes ok! Maybe he snapped because he was mad at his mates leaving him there.
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michelle1981

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Posted: 11-05-07 09:47am

Thank god he's physically fine, but sounds like an emotional wreck! Poor Nathan Sad
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ThriftyGal

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Posted: 11-05-07 10:50am

Yes he just lay on the couch with a blanket over his face, he was pretty down.

He's working two jobs right now and now he has to walk or bus to those, but his insurance might get him a rental. He's going to figure all that stuff out today.

He is in a better mood though and back to his happy self, which means the most! I can't imagine what I would do if he had been injured or in the hospital or something.

Sandra his ticket was for improper turning or something to do with turning, he couldn't see the car or something. Either way he was in the fault. I didn't really know exactly what happened yesterday, and I don't completely know it all yet because I didn't want to press him with questions as that wouldn't help anything and he might not have wanted to talk about it much right away.
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young Girl

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Posted: 11-05-07 13:37pm

tanyaface wrote:
I told him to go explain himself and get it reduced, you can do that right?

I remember my sisters boyfriend going to court whenever he had speeding tickets to give them excuses and they always lessered his fines or dropped them or something.


yep you can
he will have to go to court though and plead not guilty to have a "trial" or he can plead no contest and explain what happened
im not sure if they do that where you live but they do it here
or maybe he could take DD classes like travis is doing
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