Depressed, Stressed Out, Feel So Alone! Posted: 11-05-07 15:25pm
I really need some advice because I feel
like I'm going nuts.
I live in the UK and I've just split from
my husband. I have a soon to be 4 yr old
and a 2 yr old and I'm 21 weeks pregnant.
I don't have any family because they
disowned me and not many friends (not ones
i can talk to anyways).
Ive been married for 5 years and I
honestly cant remember the good times. we
barely went out because he went with his
mates. when he took the kids out it was
with his mates.
I know my children prefer there dad.
He has them for 3/4 days and nights a week
and everytime they're away I feel so
alone. theres noone to ring, nothing to
do.
But when they are here, I dont know what
to do with them that'll make them happy. I
wear a veil so I cant take them out much
because I get alot of verbal abuse and I
dont want them to hear and I'm a very
emotional person.
when they're in, they be at pre-school for
the aftrenoon and I dont know how to play
with them when there back!
They're always happy with there dad
because he plays boxing with them, and
throws them about in the air and catches
them. he takes them out to the parks or to
his friends who have children.
there are times when I feel like screaming
and at times I cant make myself stop
crying.
please help me.
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 11-05-07 15:28pm
hello hun! well you made a great move by
comming on here because there are LOTS of
people who can help you
welcome to ehealth and if you need
anything let me know!
-suzy
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Mike East Texas
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Nov 2007 Posts: 116 Location: Conroe, TX Montgomery
Hold On to Your Children Posted: 11-18-07 22:03pm
Don't begrudge him being a Dad. Be a Mom.
Hold them, sing to them, read to them,
watch TV with them. Make sure they bath,
brush their teeth, do any homework shows
them you care. Explian to them right from
wrong. Give them values, and the strength
to live by. You may not be able to do all
that. But, if you could do any of it,
things might grow to where you can do all
of it. Your the MOM.
This is what I would do in your position.
I hope others can help you more.
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