|
ashrenee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2007
Posts: 7
|
When did I conceive?
Posted: 11-09-07 10:22am
|
|
|
|
I made a mistake....
I had sex on May 24th with someone i met
and i had sex on May 30th with someone i
was in an on and off again relationship
with... i got pregnant.... i am due feb
20th 08. I supposedly conceived on May
30th according to computers...
what are the odds that i got pregnant THAT
day... or that i got pregnant from the guy
from the 24th... i heard that it can take
a couple of days for the sperm to meet
with the egg..... or maybe it was the
sperm from that day....
to add to the complications i have
irregular periods and i had already missed
2 periods before i got pregnant... i have
no idea of when i was ovulating...
AAAGGGGHHHH
|
|
|
|
|
 |
Emma2
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 May 2006
Posts: 4406
Location: Montreal, Canada
Thanks: 1
Thanked:0
|
Posted: 11-09-07 10:38am
|
|
|
|
|
well you heard correctly sperm can survive
upto 5 days but on average they survive 3
days.....if you ovulated a few days after
the 24th its most likely this one nigth
stand the dad .
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
ashrenee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2007
Posts: 7
|
Posted: 11-09-07 10:41am
|
|
|
|
|
well i also heard even though this sounds
stupid that gravity helps... i was at the
river with the one night stand and
immediately hopped up and went swimming...
which i know wouldn't wash away anything
but with the relationship person i just
laid there for hours... you might be right
but i really hope your wrong
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Katrinadoodle
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2007
Posts: 1231
|
Posted: 11-09-07 10:44am
|
|
|
|
|
The gravity thing's a myth.
If you get an amniocentesis done later in
the pregnancy, get a paternity test done
at the same time. Then you'll know.
|
|
|
|
|
|
Emma2
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 May 2006
Posts: 4406
Location: Montreal, Canada
Thanks: 1
Thanked:0
|
Posted: 11-09-07 10:44am
|
|
|
|
|
If you are in your fertile phase once the
male ejaculates it takes seconds for
millions of sperm to enter through your
cervix and no amount of gravity will stop
them.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
ashrenee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2007
Posts: 7
|
Posted: 11-09-07 10:47am
|
|
|
|
|
yeah i thought that was pretty dumb
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
ashrenee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2007
Posts: 7
|
Posted: 11-09-07 10:49am
|
|
|
|
|
since it was six days after the one night
stand couldn't his sperm have died??
|
|
|
|
|
|
Emma2
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 May 2006
Posts: 4406
Location: Montreal, Canada
Thanks: 1
Thanked:0
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
ashrenee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2007
Posts: 7
|
Posted: 11-09-07 11:08am
|
|
|
|
|
my ultrasound is what said i was due the
20th... i know those are never right.. but
up until your 25 weeks aren't they usually
right about when you SHOULD deliver??
don't most babys grow the same until then
and then they either grow slowly or get
real big?? and then they either come early
or late due to other factors.....
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007
Posts: 13932
Location: everythings better in, texas USA
|
Posted: 11-09-07 11:10am
|
|
|
|
|
| ashrenee
wrote: | my ultrasound is what said i
was due the 20th... i know those are never
right.. but up until your 25 weeks aren't
they usually right about when you SHOULD
deliver??
don't most babys grow the same until then
and then they either grow slowly or get
real big?? and then they either come early
or late due to other
factors..... |
babies come when they want to come no
matter how big or small they are
there are many factors to when you will
deliver
no one can tell you EXACTLy when
|
|
|
|
|
|
Emma2
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 May 2006
Posts: 4406
Location: Montreal, Canada
Thanks: 1
Thanked:0
|
Posted: 11-09-07 11:17am
|
|
|
|
|
| ashrenee
wrote: | my ultrasound is what said i
was due the 20th... i know those are never
right.. but up until your 25 weeks aren't
they usually right about when you SHOULD
deliver??
don't most babys grow the same until then
and then they either grow slowly or get
real big?? and then they either come early
or late due to other
factors..... |
give or take a few days on each side given
that your baby is healthy and all is
considered normal with the pregnancy.
Suzy, it's not the baby that decides when
it wants to be born its actually the body
itself that decides that and tiggers the
hormones thus labour begins.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
ashrenee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2007
Posts: 7
|
Posted: 11-09-07 11:21am
|
|
|
|
|
I really don't care when i'm due... as
long as shes healthy it doesn't matter...
i just wish i knew the conception date....
with one she'll have a father with the
other she won't... either way she will be
loved...
I just PRAY that the ultrasound is right
about the conception date....
|
|
|
|
|
|
Emma2
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 May 2006
Posts: 4406
Location: Montreal, Canada
Thanks: 1
Thanked:0
|
Posted: 11-09-07 11:24am
|
|
|
|
|
Your conception date is may 30th then the
1st guy is unlikely the father. Do a dna
test if you truly wanna know who the
father is. I think your baby deserves to
know who the father is.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
ashrenee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2007
Posts: 7
|
Posted: 11-09-07 11:25am
|
|
|
|
|
I really don't care when i'm due... as
long as shes healthy it doesn't matter...
i just wish i knew the conception date....
with one she'll have a father with the
other she won't... either way she will be
loved...
I just PRAY that the ultrasound is right
about the conception date....
|
|
|
|
|
|
ninfa18
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2007
Posts: 4
Location: ,
|
Wow
Posted: 11-15-07 16:25pm
|
|
|
|
|
I am in a similar situation. I am due Feb
29th and the doctors told me I conceived
Jun 2nd. I was in a relationship with
someone I cared about and had sex with
them on the 30 of May. I got drunk at my
high school graduation and slept with an
old friend. We slept togther on the
second. The thing is he never you know
inside me but my bf did. Still I am pretty
sure it is my ex bf's but always worried
it could be my friends.
|
|
|
|
|
