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Emma2

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Posted: 11-09-07 13:04pm

aaahhh thanks ingi .....and thanks for the sp....i can never spell that word correctly.
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tigresacanela24

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Posted: 11-09-07 13:06pm

found this on northwestern university's website

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Dementia: Causes, Symptoms, Diagnoses
What is dementia?
The term "dementia" is used to describe the gradual deterioration of "intellectual" abilities and behavior that eventually interferes with customary daily living activities. "Customary daily living activities" include balancing the checkbook, keeping house, driving the car, involvement in social activities, and working at one's usual occupation. There may also be changes in personality and emotions. Contrary to popular belief, dementia is not a normal outcome of aging, but is caused by diseases that affect the brain. Dementia influences all aspects of mind and behavior, including memory, judgement, language, concentration, visual perception, temperament, and social interactions. Although dementia symptoms are eventually obvious to everyone, in the early stages special evaluations are necessary to demonstrate the abnormalities.

In people over the age of 65, the most common cause of dementia is Alzheimer's disease. Alzheimer's disease is a form of brain degeneration in which abnormal particles called neurofibrillary tangles and neuritic plaques form in the brain and destroy healthy neurons (brain cells). These abnormalities tend to settle in brain areas that control the ability to learn a new fact and remember it 30 minutes, or a day later, a skill we refer to as "memory". Years of studying dementias have shown that Alzheimer's disease is not the only type of brain degeneration. There are other forms of brain degeneration, many of which can affect people in their 50's or even 40's.
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Ingi

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Posted: 11-09-07 13:08pm

tigresacanela24 wrote:
Ingi wrote:
There was a lady who lived in the apartments I managed who was schizo. She did this same exact thing. Same. Exact. Thing.

You'd ask her how her kitchen stove had been moved from her apartment and she wouldn't know. She couldn't tell you. She would say she couldn't tell you. But she was the only one there...

How old is she?

You can try to get her help, but if she has some mental problem (like schizo), no one can help her unless she asks for it.


The lady at my building would come down to pay her rent 7-10 times a day every single day because she couldn't remember that she had already paid her rent. Then she would come back and ask me if I received her rent check for the month because she didn't know what happened to it. She would swear that someone took it from her checkbook. She would also go to the store to buy a tv dinner about as often as she stopped in to pay her rent. I don't know if she ever ate them but I know she sure did buy them. Laughing


Yeah! But the lady at my building was schizo. This one time, she pounded the door knob off her apartment. Because someone (she suspected me...) took her keys and changed her locks. She was in her apartment with a hammer, hammering her door down. I had to call the police to come. They couldn't take her away because she wouldn't go and just because she is mental, doesn't mean she doesn't have rights. I spoke with her family and they were like, "Well, we can't do anything. We've tried." It was really sad.
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Posted: 11-09-07 13:19pm

I think you did the right thing Jamie. I hope the woman gets the help she needs/deserves.
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tigresacanela24

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Posted: 11-09-07 13:56pm

Ingi wrote:

Yeah! But the lady at my building was schizo. This one time, she pounded the door knob off her apartment. Because someone (she suspected me...) took her keys and changed her locks. She was in her apartment with a hammer, hammering her door down. I had to call the police to come. They couldn't take her away because she wouldn't go and just because she is mental, doesn't mean she doesn't have rights. I spoke with her family and they were like, "Well, we can't do anything. We've tried." It was really sad.


Yeah, we had one of those too. Rolling Eyes She believed that she was a high rolling exec at cbs/arista living rent free in a corporate apartment. She also believed that the maintenance men worked for arista. I of course worked for the "black cbs" or "motown" and I didn't belong in the building. Rolling Eyes She would barricade herself into her apartment because the maintenance men/arista workers were out to steal her music from her because in addition to being a high flying exec she was also a world renowned singer. Oh yeah, she also owned half of the neighborhood.

I didn't know you had worked in property management. That's pretty cool! Did you like it? I liked every aspect of it except for the fact that I had to do everything from marketing to accounting for my site. I didn't have any help in the office. I think that if they would have found a new maintenance super and gave me an assistant manager, I could have stayed there for a while.
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Ingi

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Posted: 11-09-07 14:03pm

Hrm. Confidentiality agreements make me unable to answer your question in detail. But the simple answer is NO. Mostly it was the company I worked for. Although there were some tenants who expected me to be their mama. Ugh.
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Posted: 11-09-07 14:51pm

Ingi wrote:
Hrm. Confidentiality agreements make me unable to answer your question in detail. But the simple answer is NO. Mostly it was the company I worked for. Although there were some tenants who expected me to be their mama. Ugh.


Aww, but you're such a great mama bear Very
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Mm hmm! That's my new nickname for you! Mama Bear! <3
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Emma2

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Posted: 11-09-07 14:53pm

AyaMiyaki wrote:
Ingi wrote:
Hrm. Confidentiality agreements make me unable to answer your question in detail. But the simple answer is NO. Mostly it was the company I worked for. Although there were some tenants who expected me to be their mama. Ugh.


Aww, but you're such a great mama bear Very
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Mm hmm! That's my new nickname for you! Mama Bear! <3


lol so fitting!
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Sandbox Party

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Posted: 11-09-07 15:38pm

shes the Forum Mother.

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Ingi

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Posted: 11-09-07 18:09pm

Aww! You guys are gonna make me get all weepy.
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tigresacanela24

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Posted: 11-09-07 18:13pm

Shocked
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