My Gf Thinks She's Pregnant With Her Ex's Baby Posted: 11-10-07 00:32am
yea my girlfriend recently (meaning like
for about a month and half now) has been
feeling sick after large meals. she said
it had to do with her anorexia problem
years ago. her and i had sex once and i
used (as always) protection so I'm good.
but she called me tonight hysterically
crying and i had to yell at her to tell me
what was wrong over the phone cause i
wasn't able to leave the house to see her
and she said "I think I'm pregnant with
Noah's (her ex) baby!!!!" apparently she
hasn't had her period since October and
apparently it was only for a day she had
her it "??????" yea I'm mad confused. i
know she needs to get a test and i told
her to get one asap and i told her I'm
here for her and i support her and all,
but deep down I'm scared. i don't want to
be in the middle of this. I'm 19 for
Christ sake!!! I'm not ready to have a
pregnant girlfriend i have been dating for
3 weeks. but i really do care about her
and i think i might be in love with her
but i just don't know what to do or think.
someone please help me!!
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monkeygirl22
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Posted: 11-10-07 00:49am
All I can say is that she needs to take a
test. Then, you need to figure out if you
want to be with her or not.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-10-07 01:16am
Well, the potential baby is her concern at
the moment, not yours. You should be
supportive to the point of helping her to
get a test, and be there emotionally.
What is she planning to do if she is
pregnant? There are three options: keeping
it, adoption, or abortion. Two of those
options mean you don't have to put your
life on hold for the child.
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soldierswifey
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Posted: 11-20-07 01:27am
i agree she doesnt need added stress
as mad as you are this mostlikely happened
when ya'll werent together
she needs someone to be there and
obviously she thinks highly enough of you
to call you in her time of need
tell her or go buy her a test
then you'll have your awnser
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-20-07 21:35pm
if your not ready to help her support her
baby then you need to just let her go
you have to understand that theres more to
you and her now
if she IS preg the childs father may want
to be involved? how would you handle that?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-21-07 07:43am
This topic is rather old guys.
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soldierswifey
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Posted: 11-21-07 13:14pm
lol really...i was wondering why he never
awnsered back
sorry!!
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young Girl
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