elderboy10
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Please Help I Am Going Through a Very Hard Time Right Now!
Posted: 11-10-07 17:30pm
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Hey I am writing this Because i think i am
very mentally depressed. There is only one
reason i canthink of f which is causing it
and that is love.
I am 13 years old and when i was 8 and in
year 5 i had a girl friend, i then saw
this girl who i fell in love with during
that relationship. i dumped the girl the
next day and i later found out this girl
was one of my older brothers best mates
and was 3 years older than me.
I have waited for 4 years now to try and
be with her it was earlier this year i
met this guy who i'm now great mates with
who helped me talk to the girl and i found
out that she had a boyfriend, when ever
she came on msn i would talk to her and
she would ocasionly talk back.
but last month something happened. she
came online and were it used to say
--loving matt for ever-- it now said
-heart broken in her screen name. i began
to talk to her even though i knew she
didnt really like me, about 5 minutes
later she blocked me.
now this girls boyfriend new i fancied
her and began to start to freten and even
waited for me outside school one day and
he said if i ever laid eyes on her again i
would be dead. me and my friend thought
the only reason she blocked me was that i
had split them up.
after that i lost all contact with her
and and cant bring up the courage to talk
to her at school. i am getting really
depressed over it and have found out i
have given up many hobbies like ,
football,warhammer online games,rugby and
listening to music.
i have also become really aggressive
because the other day i beat up my best
mate for calling me emo as a joke when i
tried to tell him i think i suffer from a
deppresion disorder. i used to be quite
a kind boy but for some reason my friends
are scared of me.
this deppresion has ruined my life and i
think the only way to stop it is if i can
talk to this girl but i have no courage at
all.
please i really need help as i'm writing
this i am crying
the only people that know about me
fancying the girl are Two of my best mates
and the girl. only the two best mates know
i suffer from deppresionn.
please help!
and by the way if you need anymore
information i will be happy to give it to
you 
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elderboy10
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Plz Post
Posted: 11-12-07 11:57am
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ppl plz post 
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Elderboy10
Posted: 11-12-07 13:19pm
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Sounds like you headed for a fall. I would
suggest that you see a counsler before
this gets any worse.You are still so very
young. You should not have to go through
this yet. Puppy love is real, and don't
let anyone tell you differently. You have
to try not to hybernate yourself and get
out and meet kids your age. Staying home
is not helping matters any. I hate to see
someone your age having to go through
this. Relationships are one of the hardest
things to get over. But, you have to try
and put it behind you and move on. I'll
bet there are many girs out there that
would not mind a close relationship with
you. You sound like a very smart person.
So, be smart enough to know when to let
go.
And by all means, stay away from her
boyfriend! I don't think you would look
good in the color red.
Carrie
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Posted: 11-12-07 15:05pm
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Thank you, elderboy for coming to ehealth.
I hope talking to people on here can help
you!
I think that it's best to start to
disengage from the situation. By blocking
you on msn, the girl gave you the message
that she doesn't want to talk. And, as
MsSky sya, stay away from the boyfriend.
You're already in enough emotional pain..
you don't need any physical pain to go
with it.
Trust me on this one: it might seem as
though your world is irrepairably shaken
up right now... with depression and how
this situation has panned out... BUT
things will get better. This is just an
instance to help you learn for the next
time!
If you can somehow find a counselor or
therapist to talk to at school or
privately, I'd strongly recommend it. They
can give you many suggestions as to what
action to take to slowly get over all of
this. Please keep us updated. We'll always
be here to talk!!
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Posted: 11-12-07 15:24pm
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Maybe you could switch schools and start
over again.
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Posted: 11-12-07 17:27pm
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I have to disagree with the above post.
You can't keep running away from you
problems, because it can't be done. The
problem lies within ones self. Untill you
get to the core of what it is, you can run
to kingdom come and never find yourself.
Face the music and stay where you are and
change the things that need changing in
you life. That is the only healthy way to
go about it.
Carrie
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elderboy10
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Well...
Posted: 11-13-07 11:32am
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well..i am 12 i cant just move away form
school besides then my brother would have
to move and i love her so much. i love he
like family i love her more than anyone in
my family and i do not want her to leave
in 5 months!
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CarolDiane
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Posted: 11-13-07 11:45am
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Hon, I really wish there was something I
could say that would make this easier on
you. I believe you do love her and this is
going to be very hard on you. There is no
age where this stops hurting. You could be
40 years old and it will hurt just as
much. Seriously, if there is anything I
can say that would help and make you feel
better I would. Love is one of the hardest
parts of life. Loosing someone you love is
horrific.
I still love my X husband, but he chooses
to be foot loss and fancy free and not
tied down. I will alway love him. He has
his own floor covering business and has an
RV and travel all over the country. Right
now for the passed year since Katrina, he
has been in Baton Rouge and in that area.
I have not seem him since 2004.
So you see, your not alone my friend.
Bottom line is "Love Hurts".
Hugs,
Carrie
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Posted: 11-13-07 11:48am
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yeah i see that... i hate love, its good
thing when it goes right,
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CarolDiane
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Your Not Alone My Friend
Posted: 11-13-07 11:57am
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I have now kept my distance (kinda built a
wall around myself with men) after three
marriages I've had it. And all two out of
the three were not my fault. But you are
right. When Ms. Right comes along you will
know it and it will work out. You seem
like you will make a wonderful hubby and
daddy one day. Don't change, stay just the
way you are and try not to let one
relationship spoil a wonderful future for
you.
Keep in touch,
Carrie
Anyone else have something they would like
to add that may help my little friend
here?
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elderboy10
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Posted: 11-13-07 12:00pm
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i always wonderd about my future, becuase
most of my friends take it step bytstep
but i think ahead and im alway thinking,
am i going ot have naough money; will i be
married; will i be able ot have kids; will
i get the job i want (actor)
u see it worries me and stuff but i would
give up all of it just to be with this
girl.
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Wow!
Posted: 11-13-07 12:03pm
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She really must be a knockout or
something. OK, let's hope maybe things
might not work out between her and this
new guy. That could happen ya know. Stop
worring about the future. It will take
care of itself. Your to young to be
stressing over those things right now. At
least wait till your in high school. 
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elderboy10
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Oh Sorry!
Posted: 11-13-07 12:05pm
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Sorry did i forget to mention she broke up
with him, thats why she blocked me on msn,
coz i think me and my mate acceidently
split her up, it wa skinda funny coz her
best friend coz Rowan, look she loves matt
and they will alway be together and the
dya after she broke up with him.
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elderboy10
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If U Want
Posted: 11-13-07 12:10pm
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if you want i could send you a pic can u
send pics privetly?
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Posted: 11-13-07 12:27pm
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The only way you could do that is through
e-mail. And I appologize, I really don't
give it out. But, I can imagine. No you
did not tell me they broke up. So, in
other words she is blaming you and your
mate for the break-up? Now that is a sorry
excuse IMHO. If this guy really loved her
they would still be together! Something
wrong with this picture here. And if that
is the case, I am now wondering if she is
really worth your while waiting around for
her. She may pull the same thing on you.
Sounds to me like a really fickle gal. Be
careful you don't get burnt even more then
you aready has my friend.
Carrie
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Posted: 11-13-07 12:30pm
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Posted: 11-13-07 12:32pm
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IMHO= In My Humble Opinion
Carrie 
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Posted: 11-13-07 13:19pm
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She is very cute and I can see why you
feel the way you do. Wish I looked half
that good at that age! LOL In the pic
though she does look kinda flaunty. Be
careful!
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elderboy10
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Posted: 11-13-07 13:21pm
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Thank you and she's all mine! (i wish)
what do you mean by flaunty, if u ever
wouldnt mind letting me send you a betta
pic through e-mail or osmin i dont mind if
you dont want to.
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